Hi....I just found out I was pregnant..And
my sex drive seems to have increased a lot
lately. My boyfriend however does not
have the same stamina that I do. I could
go all night long..And he can be a one
minute man sometimes. I don't know
why..I perform oral sex...Then we make
love and I forgot the foreplay. Is it
possible to turn him on so much when he
slides inside me he just freaks? Like a
couple maybe 10-20 strokes and he's done.
What can I do to make him last longer
with me.
-samm-
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 09-30-03 09:39am
Dear sam,
it sounds as though your hormones are in
overdrive since you became pregnant. Your
hormones do change once you are pregnant,
but I honestly couldn't tell you if it is
common to increase your sex drive. Has
your husband always ejaculated prematurely
? Or is this something that has just
started happening since your sex drive has
increased ? Maybe your enthusiasm to want
sex so often is arousing him to the point
where he is unable to control the length
of time it takes him to ejaculate. Most
husbands are more than willing to have sex
with their partner twice a day if not
more. Maybe you should try having sex
twice a day each day. Most men having
regular sex will not usually ejaculate so
fast. Goodness me, I can't believe i'm
talking about all this, lol. How
embarrassing. I hope I haven't
embarrassed you sam, that wasn't my
intention. We are all here to help and
have a chat anytime.
Regards,
.::suzy::.
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chynadoll34
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Sep 2003 Posts: 9 Location: Detroit,MI
Re: Guys Please Help Me!!! Posted: 09-30-03 10:16am
All that you need to do is increase the
foreplay. Give oral sex until he comes
then begin the penetration
-samm-[/quote]
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Hey Sam Posted: 09-30-03 11:01am
Hey sam,
I know what you are going though. When
I first got pregnant I was just like you.
I know what helps is to tease him. Give
him a little and stop and do something
else. For example start off with some
oral sex then let him slide in you just a
little then go back to oral sex and then
switch to a different positions. Don't
give him when a chance to cum.... Keep
come up with some new stuff don't stay
with one thing to long. I wish you the
best of luck.......Keep us posted and let
me know if it worked
your friend ,
passion
keep in touch
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vltsammluv
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Sep 2003 Posts: 2 Location: PA
Posted: 10-03-03 08:23am
Thank you so mcuh everybody...Heres the
thing..If we are having sex and I try to
swtich it up and give him oral..He goes
soft..I dont know. I want to please him
because he pleases me extremely.
-samm-
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-03-03 14:49pm
I know that some time when a woman is
pregnant her partner loses their urge to
have sex......They are scared they might
hurt the baby( how cute
)......You don't always have to have sex
to please a man....If he loves you, just
being with him might just be enough for
him....And for you, if you aren't getting
enough from him.....Go to the toys....
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JamieMc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 9 Location: Germany
Hey Posted: 01-04-04 09:00am
My name is jamie when my son was in my x I
was nervouse and lost my drive for awhile
then I got it back and then some. I think
one of the sexiest things back then was
that my x was pregnant. The whole cycle I
can not wait for my wife to get pregnant
her is a site for you to check out its
called babycenter. I am sorry I do not
rember the exat adress but it deals with
sex during pregnancy. Read it and hell
there are big sections for guys in there
to from other dads he could read that may
help him out because it is very important
the women gets plesure during pregnancy
because of her mood swings and some times
the unwanted feeling they get due to there
changing look. I hope this helps you to
and congrats. Jamie
)......You don't always have to have sex
to please a man....If he loves you, just
being with him might just be enough for
him....And for you, if you aren't getting
enough from him.....Go to the toys....
