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Q: Guys Please Help Me!!!
asked by: vltsammluv on September 30th, 2003
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Hi....I just found out I was pregnant..And my sex drive seems to have increased a lot lately. My boyfriend however does not have the same stamina that I do. I could go all night long..And he can be a one minute man sometimes. I don't know why..I perform oral sex...Then we make love and I forgot the foreplay. Is it possible to turn him on so much when he slides inside me he just freaks? Like a couple maybe 10-20 strokes and he's done. What can I do to make him last longer with me.

-samm-
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Suzy
replied on September 30th, 2003
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Dear sam,

it sounds as though your hormones are in overdrive since you became pregnant. Your hormones do change once you are pregnant, but I honestly couldn't tell you if it is common to increase your sex drive. Has your husband always ejaculated prematurely ? Or is this something that has just started happening since your sex drive has increased ? Maybe your enthusiasm to want sex so often is arousing him to the point where he is unable to control the length of time it takes him to ejaculate. Most husbands are more than willing to have sex with their partner twice a day if not more. Maybe you should try having sex twice a day each day. Most men having regular sex will not usually ejaculate so fast. Goodness me, I can't believe i'm talking about all this, lol. How embarrassing. I hope I haven't embarrassed you sam, that wasn't my intention. We are all here to help and have a chat anytime.

Regards,

.::suzy::.
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chynadoll34
replied on September 30th, 2003
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Re: Guys Please Help Me!!!
All that you need to do is increase the foreplay. Give oral sex until he comes then begin the penetration

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BabyPassion
replied on September 30th, 2003
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Hey Sam
Hey sam,
I know what you are going though. When I first got pregnant I was just like you. I know what helps is to tease him. Give him a little and stop and do something else. For example start off with some oral sex then let him slide in you just a little then go back to oral sex and then switch to a different positions. Don't give him when a chance to cum.... Keep come up with some new stuff don't stay with one thing to long. I wish you the best of luck.......Keep us posted and let me know if it worked Wink

your friend ,
passion
keep in touch
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vltsammluv
replied on October 3rd, 2003
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Thank you so mcuh everybody...Heres the thing..If we are having sex and I try to swtich it up and give him oral..He goes soft..I dont know. I want to please him because he pleases me extremely.

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BabyPassion
replied on October 3rd, 2003
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I know that some time when a woman is pregnant her partner loses their urge to have sex......They are scared they might hurt the baby( how cute Laughing )......You don't always have to have sex to please a man....If he loves you, just being with him might just be enough for him....And for you, if you aren't getting enough from him.....Go to the toys.... Laughing
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JamieMc
replied on January 4th, 2004
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Hey
My name is jamie when my son was in my x I was nervouse and lost my drive for awhile then I got it back and then some. I think one of the sexiest things back then was that my x was pregnant. The whole cycle I can not wait for my wife to get pregnant her is a site for you to check out its called babycenter. I am sorry I do not rember the exat adress but it deals with sex during pregnancy. Read it and hell there are big sections for guys in there to from other dads he could read that may help him out because it is very important the women gets plesure during pregnancy because of her mood swings and some times the unwanted feeling they get due to there changing look. I hope this helps you to and congrats. Jamie
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