Joined: 04 Aug 2004 Posts: 1739 Location: Houston, Texas
Just a Rant... Posted: 08-16-04 21:28pm
This is pretty long...But i'm upset.
I've ben having a really hard time lately.
I dont know if you remember but I told
you that me and the father (chris) are
trying to work things out...Welll the
other day things were starting to get
better. He came over friday morning and
we hung out and everything was awesome.
Well then he left around 1 to go to
work....Well I went up to my old school to
see my friends that evening (stupid blue
and white night, and orientation sort of
thing) and they told me he had been up
there after school. Well I was like what
the crap he is suppsoed to be at work...
So I called him and this girl picked up
and goes.
Girl: who is this?
Me: michelle, whos this? *confused*
girl: brittini (girl he works with)
me: wheres chris?
Girl: he left his phone at my house this
after noon but hes coming over tonight cuz
hes staying over, would you lik eme to
have him call you then?
Me: sure *really confused and angry* ...
Bye
so I was like, what... Well I talked to
him that night...Turns out he got off work
and left his phone on the cashier counter
and she thought it'd be funny to play a
joke on me...And he was laughing wen I
told him! He though tit was really
funny! I was so mad!!!
So then the next day...I talked to him
that night and he tells me, I need you to
leave me alone. I dont love you anymore
and I wanna try and get it back but
everytime I get close you scare me away
with a fit like last night. So I cried
for like 3 hours but finally decided to
give it a try.
Well yesterday, my friend calls me from
american eagle (where he works) and tells
me that he called brittini(evil girl on
phone) his girl. So I flipped out and
called him that night. Yet another
explanation...She has apparently been
there for him through all this...She knows
about my baby and she is trying to help
him through all his stress so things can
be better. But no offense to her,
but what she did to me didnt quite sound
that way...I dunno.
What do you girls think...
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lauren22
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 647 Location: Alabama
Posted: 08-16-04 22:00pm
Hey girl! Sorry he is acting so wierd!
It sounds to me like he is confused and
doesnt know what he wants! I'm sure this
is all hard for him, but that is no excuse
to treat you like crap...Ya know? Is he
supportive of you and will he be there for
you when the baby is born? Sorry I really
cant say more because I dont really know
the situation. I really hope it all works
out for you! And remember we are always
here to listen and support you! Hang in
there girl!
Lauren
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Posted: 08-16-04 22:33pm
Sounds to me like those two are hooked up,
and he is telling you stories to keep you
side tracked. I think you should step
away and give him the silent treatment.
Sorry, but he is messed up!
Girl,
i hate to say it but it sounds like he's
messin with this chic. I don't believe
any of his stories. I think they hooked
up a while ago. Girl, I am so sorry. Men
are dogs!
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sweetsuzi
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 May 2004 Posts: 831 Location: Bonny Scotland
Posted: 08-17-04 05:52am
Yup, he is trying to have his cake and eat
it. You have to cool it off from him. I
dont belive what he told you about that
brittini, it's a typical man lie.
Dont let him emotionaly blackmail you.
Dont let him come back when he wants too.
Im pretty sure he will be back. Gotta be
strong girl. It;s got to be on your
terms, he is the one thats doing this not
you.
