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Q: Robert, 12, a Dying Abandoned Romanian Child !!!
asked by: Monique Prager on August 15th, 2004
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Hello, there!
Let me introduce myself !
I am 22 and I live in romania. I know you probably heard already many bad things about this country... But I like to think I am an exception !
I just loged into this forum because I have a friend with leukemia. His name is robert and he is 12. I met him last september in the oncology section where I did some voluntary work. In fact, I met there many children and their parents but he was the single child alone there. Obviously, I paid him the biggest part of my attention. He was allways doing little sings or games of paper, pictures, or just walking there.When I begun to speak to him, his room mate just died and he was a little scared... By the time, we begun to speak and play more and more... I found out his father died and his mother abandoned him after. Actually, his uncle is taking care of him and he is paid by the state to do that. In fact, his status is the one of an abondoned child. A dying one ! He has leukemia. Obviously, the transplant of marrow is too expansive to dream of and I don't even want to suggest it, as I am aware we live in romania ! Here it's very hard to live normally, even if you have a job. Unfortunately, this social situation humiliate those dying children more and add to their last moments a pointless pain. I have just graduated the catholic faculty of social security and I will begin to work as a social worker probably in october. Then, I would have bigger opportunities to find some ways to support robert. Actually, I tried to do it through a project sent to an italian catholic church. The project's aim was to help a little some of the romanian sick children. They told me to wait a time, to let them think and, after some monthes of hope they told me they have already too many social projects. Now I would like to find someone to help a little my friend. He will go back to school in september and I know that some little presents could make him very happy. So, what I am asking for is to find someone eager and able to send him something in order to make him happier. He is such a special boy that he would really know to appreciate a lot even little things. So, what do you say about this ? Is it possible ? Am I asking too much ? Or do you know another way to do this ?
Thanks and hope to find an answer. I will answer to any question you have about it. Exclamation
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liss
replied on November 21st, 2004
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Robert
Please tell me what you think this child would like. How he is doing, he sounds like a delightful child and with the holidays approaching I would like to make it a little more special for him.
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Monique Prager
replied on November 22nd, 2004
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Thanks a Lot 1
Hello, liss !

You don't imagine what a great joy your message gave me! After such a long time since I wrote into the forum, I didn't expected to receive any answer at all.
Even last days I saw some advertisings for christmas and I got upset thinking that robert would deserve something too and I might not be able to give him anything... You know, it's strange and painful to see at christmas such big differences between people, between children: some with their parents, walking in their expansive cars and some others, like robert, with no parents at all...But with the "oportunity" of having leukemia !!!
So, your message is more than welcome. I am really surprised to see that someone is able to give, in such a manner, without knowing us at all. It's indeed a great thing, a lesson of human behaviour !
Robert is quite well now, thanks god. He came to hospital 1 month ago fot another treatment of cytostatic and it was ok. He begun the school in september and he is proud of that.
He lives in another town but he just sent me a letter last week and he said that he was well. He lives at his uncle now but, sinceerly, I guess they don't care of him so much, how they should, how a dying child would need... What it's more surprising is that he behaves very well, with a lot of commun sens. If you give me youe e-mail, I can send you some photos...
I would also like to know about you a little, where are you from, how old are you... If you want. I hope you don't have anyone with leukemia...
As regards me, unfortunately I didn't succeed to employ myself yet. I have some promises but I will probably begine in december. I know it's quite strange that i'm asking others to do something, while I am not even working yet. But in romania is indeed tough and difficult to find a job. Unfortunately, there's a lot of corruption even in our catholic social organisation... I would not hide it that, often, what the foreign countries send for romania is stolen by the social workers...
As regards the present for robert, I don't have any established ideea. I was thinking that it might be nice a portable cd-player and maybe some things for school, like notebooks, a bag for school... Or anything else you think it's nice for a boy of 12. It's up to you what you want to send or the manner of sending it.
I hope I didn't bore you with such a long message. Thanks again for your answer. You'll be in my prayers.

Sinceerly, monique.
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