I think your guy has some serious issues if he wants to punched,kicked ,etc.Most guys go far out of their way to avoid being struck in the testicles.Why does he want to hurt himself?That would be my first question to him.I hope he is not serious in this,because he can indeed injure himself and get nasty infections from digging his fingernails into his genitals.Your hands have more bcateria than you'd like to think!!Patty

Yes he is serious , he gets off on it , he can get off soley on the punch/kick ect .. The digging his nails in was the first and last time he will do that ... He didnt like that pain I guess lol anyways ... He wants me to do it to him & I want to please him , I just dont think its safe

That just reminds me of the definitions:

masochist: someone who says "hurt me! Hurt me!"

sadist: someone who says "no."

I am sorry, but your man needs therapy in my opinion. Yes, everyone likes different things, but what kind of pleasure are you going to get out of watching him cream himself from being kicked? That is just ridiculous. You should worry a lot less about pleasing him and start thinking about pleasing yourself and getting a man who gets off the normal way.

I could not bring myself to induce so much pain on the person I love!A little spanky-spanky,in a playful way,sure.Twisting,pulling and punching his testes???Sorry,not my thing.But if two adults wish to do this,whatever.Hope it all works out for you.Patty

They had this show on, and heck if I can remember what in the heck it way, but I think it was real sex on hbo. There were prostitutes talking about some of their "strangest" clients. The one had a guy who said he would pay her $10 for every needle he stuck in his penis. She said she stuck him with two and had to quit because the fact that he enjoyed it so much and the sounds he made were making her sick!
There are some strange rangers out there and I hope and pray I never have to meet one let alone end up with one!

Exactly,they pay people good money to do that kind of stuff so I don't have to!!Patty

even though he is out there .............way out there .....how much can you live with and what next? a few broken bones ????????you really want the memory of what he wants yopu to do in your head for the rest of your life ? let him find a like mind and fetish partner and stay sane...good luck...Wazzywoman

That's actually a fairly common fetish, so don't let people scare you or tell you he is sick or weird.

I am not sure what problems that might cause, if any. I have only played around with it a bit, but that partner did not have any problems as a result of it. You could ask a doctor about it. You could also try looking on some fetish sites if you want to learn more and hear any firsthand stories or problems that might have come up due to this sort of play. I like www.collarme.com. You can search, talk to people through private message, or participate in forums for free. I find the people there are generally very friendly and willing to talk about just about anything.

ok i just read that...What...The....F.....seriously? this dude isnt realy a dude then. if he can get you do do all these things and he doesnt feal any pain then it musent be him...rather some tumorous sack hanging from his miss shaped vagina...lol seriously thats crazy haha

i really enjoy the pain stuff too, mainly whipping and razor play , so i can see where he's coming from. However yeah I think stomping on his balls could do some damage.. i dont think its a good idea at all =\
maybe talk to him about it

Just to clarify somebody's definitions earlier because they weren't entirely accurate. The Psychological terms and definitions for the following are
Sexual Masochist: A person who gets sexual pleasure/gratification from having pain inflicted onto him/herself.
Ex. Wanting to be a submissive slave girl and getting whipped and chained brutally during sex

Sexual Sadist: A person who gets sexual pleasure from inflicting pain onto another.
Ex. Quite a few many cases of serial killers who abused and injured their victims before killing them out of pleasure.

Sadists I consider are far more dangerous -_-

I cringed reading your post .... be a sadist say no !

Its just wrong its not sexy or a turn on in any way it hurts like mad and causes serius damage

This is Old Topic.

Posted: 08-15-04

There is nothing wrong with this person. Fetishes are fetishes. As long as they don't actually cause harm there is nothing wrong with them. And who doesn't love a little tough love??

This doesn't mean there is a psychological condition present. I know this is an old post but y'all need to relax a little.