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Q: Suggestions For Teen Please
asked by: ashes on August 13th, 2004
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Hello all! I'm new here and i've recently been researching birth control methods, mainly the pill/patch. I'm 15 years old and I would like to have the pill/patch not only for birth control but for other advantages as well, like a regular period. I'm usually regular but from time to time I am late and that causes very bad cramps. My dad offered to get me the pill/patch because recently my 13 year old cousin was talked into having sex by her brother's 18 year old friend. Unfortunately she did get pregnant. As a loving father does, he got worried and decided to have a father-daughter talk with me. He told me he didn't want me getting pregnant at 15 and he would get me the pill, but I said no because i'm not having sex. Later I realized that I don't need to be having sex to want the pill, because of other advantages. Plus, i've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now, and the subject of sex is likely to come up sooner or later. We get along great and we love each other very much so waiting until marriage was never a big concern of ours. Some of you may think i'm too young to know if we're going to stay together but many who know me think i'm more mature than the average 15 year old. All of my friends are older than I if that gives you a clue. I don't try to act older, it just sort of runs in the family to be more mature and have an above-average intelligence (not to be conceited). So I do a lot of research when i'm interested in something, which is why i'm researching birth control now. So i'm wondering, if I do decide to get the pill or patch, how exactly do I go about doing this? Any other suggestions you think may help are welcome and appreciated. Thanks in advance for your help.
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Hel
replied on August 13th, 2004
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You can visit your gp to discuss going on the pill - you don't have to be of a certain age to start using it, particularly if you are planning to regulate your periods. The pill usually does make them lighter and less painful, you can also plan it right down to the exact day, so there'll be no surprises! I am taking the combined oral contraceptive, which is one of the safest forms of birth control. If you're in a loving relationship and are thinking about having sex soon, it's probably the best for you. I live in the uk so i'm only telling you how things are here, i'm not too sure about the rest of the world!
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CrazyBanana
replied on August 13th, 2004
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Hi ashes. It's good to see that you're being responsible. In regards to obtaining the pill or patch--1st of all, do you have insurance? If you go to your physician, he/she can send you to the gynecologist (once you ask for birth control pills and/or become sexually active, you have to have pelvic exams w/ the gynecologist). The gynecologist can tell you more about birth control, and prescribe you the pill. If you are uncomfortable with your parents finding out, know that your parents are not allowed to access any of your medical records w/o your consent. But you wrote that your dad actually wanted to put you on the pill, correct? In which case, he could take you to get them.

The other alternative would be going to a planned parenthood clinic. They will give you pills for a small donation.

When you do become sexually active, you should probably use more than one type of contraceptive. Basically, you should combine pill usage with condoms and/or spermacides, etc. So that you can be more certain you won't get pregnant.
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PattyV
replied on August 13th, 2004
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Wow,what an awesome dad you have!!!It must have been very difficult for him to have that talk with you,but good for him for doing that!It is great that you are thinking of birth control before you need it ,since there are options to be weighed and the pill needs a little time to be effective.It does seem that you are more mature than most your age.Whatever method you choose,remember no method is 100% safe and use an backup method just to be sure.I wish you luck!Patty
p.S.I think you would do well on the pill,you seem reponsible enough to remember to take it. Smile
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ashes
replied on August 13th, 2004
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Pattyv- yes, my dad is very open-minded. I think I inherited from him, because we can talk about anything.. So I don't think it was really difficult for him. My boyfriend and I have discussed precautions to take before we decide to have sex. So far the plan is to use the pill/patch and spermicidal condoms.

Crazybanana- I believe I am on my dad's insurance. My parents finding out is not an issue, my dad is fine with it. He really just doesn't want me to get pregnant. Now my mom - to put it nicely - she has communication problems. That ended up leading to their divorce. She's very close-minded but with a little sweet talk and proof that i'm responsible, i'm sure everything will turn out as planned.

Hel- i'm looking forward to lighter and less painful periods. :d thanks for your suggestion.

Thanks for all your help!!!
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2ferano
replied on August 14th, 2004
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I just wanted to add a couple of things. Number one, you do not have to go to a gynecologist per say. You have to have a pelvic exam before anyone will give you the pill/ patch, etc., but most family practioners will do that for you. They usually only refer you to a gynecologist if there are problems.
If you go to a family planning clinic regardless of whether or not you have health insurance, you can get the pill and exams for free since you are under 18. Simply tell them that you don't want your parents to know (even if you don't really care) this way they won't ask for insurance information. These clinics are government funded and even if you used your insurance, you will be saving money not using it. I hope that made sense.
Anyway, it is great to see that you are responsible and it is also great that you have a caring and understanding father. Good luck to you!
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ashes
replied on August 14th, 2004
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Hotasfrick- I was wondering if I had to go to a gyno or not. Thanks for the info.
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2ferano
replied on August 14th, 2004
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You are very welcome! Good luck and if you have any more questions just let me know.
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June4life
replied on August 14th, 2004
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To get birth control you have to go to the gyno.

I didnt want to go either, I just wanted to get the pills, but it doesnt work like that
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2ferano
replied on August 14th, 2004
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No, you do not have to go to a gyno. Her family doctor can do her pap test and prescribe pills. If they have samples in the office they can give them to her right then and there. I know I have done it for ten years.
I have only been to a gyno one time and that was because I had a cyst on my ovary. But for all of my paps, I go to my family doctor.
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Hel
replied on August 14th, 2004
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It's bound to be different in different places, for me, I didn't have to do anything but talk to my doctor and he prescribed it the same day. I'm in the uk and i'm guessing that the procedure will vary from country to country or even state to state.
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2ferano
replied on August 14th, 2004
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Yeah, I suppose some family doctors don't do paps, but here in pa they do! And if you don't want to go to your family doctor then you can go to family planning. The only reason I have ever gone to a gyno is for complications. But, I guess it just depends on where you are and whatnot. But, I have always just gone to my family doctor.
My suggestion is to just call your family doctor, say that you want to start taking the birth control pill and ask what you need to do.
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PattyV
replied on August 14th, 2004
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I would be more comfortable with a gyn.They are more likely to notice any abnormalities and have more current info on birth control.Most insurance companies will allow you to see a gyn without a referral.At least that's how it works in illinois.Patty
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2ferano
replied on August 14th, 2004
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I personally don't like gynecologists. Anyone who would go to school to specialize in that kind of thing really worries me. That is why I like my doctor. She only does it because it is part of the whole package, and she her life goal wasn't to look at the female anatomy all day.Lol. That is just me though!
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June4life
replied on August 14th, 2004
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Hotasfrick, in ny, you have to see a gyno before going on birth control. And I too don't have a perscription for the pills either. When I go to my gyno for a yearly exam, he gives me 13 packs of pills so that i'm all set until my next exam the following year. I get 13 packs because if the exam isnt exactally a year apart, then I still have the pills.
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ashes
replied on August 14th, 2004
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I guess i'll just have to found out how it works down here. Thanks for all the info your guys!
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PattyV
replied on August 15th, 2004
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June4life,you have a very generous doc.The most I ever got was 6 months' worth!I thought that was good!That was the in the days before insurance companies were require to give coverage to oral contraceptives.In illinois, it is the law now that oral contraceptives get coverage,like any other prescription.Viagra has had coverage for a while,why not!!Insurance would pay for a man to get an erection,but not for prevention of the result of an erection!Now we get equal coverage!It needs to become a national law,so more women can afford birth control.Okay,i'll step off my soapbox now.Patty
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2ferano
replied on August 15th, 2004
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In pa you don't have to go to a gyno. At family planning they will only give me two packs of pills (because nordette is a popular brand, it is the same for ortho) at a time, so I have to go in there every freakin two months. It is a pain, but a heck of a lot cheaper. My family doctor usually give me six months of samples free and then calls me in a prescpription for three months worth after the six months. If she doesn't have samples then she calls in three packs at a time because that is the only way the insurance company will do it. That, or one pack at a time which is even more of a pain!
I have trouble with this only two packs at a time thing because I always put off getting them and end up starting my pill late. I don't have sex so there is no risk of pregnancy, but it still messes up my cycle. But, I just cannot afford nordette without the family planning discount. It is outrageously expensive.
Anyway, as I said, you will just have to see what you have to do in your area. All areas are different I guess.
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