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Q: Panic Button?
asked by: ScaredBaka on August 13th, 2004
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I only recently found out about girls having a clitoris (spelling?); my boyfriend actually told me it was somewhere in the girl's body. So I went on a southern safari xd and I found it. I tried touching it but it kind of tingled. In my boyfriend's words, "the girl's clit is what makes her spooge".

How can such a little appendage make a girl achieve orgasm? And if so, how in the world would she or her partner go about doing it?

My boyfriend and I made a bit of physical contact and he touched me in my vaginal area with his hands. He began rubbing what I believe was the region where my clitoris was; I can't say that I felt pain, because it didn't hurt, but the feeling was far too intense for me to handle.

Has anyone else ever had this experience?

I hope this isn't an illegal post or anything. I have an account on another health forum and I know that how-to posts or techniques are strictly banned. I apologize if that's the case here!

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Scaredbaka - wonders why it "hurts"
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2ferano
replied on August 13th, 2004
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Well, I don't really know how to explain how to do it, but I will try to help anyway.
First, he has to be super, super gentle! Also, I know with me, I can't have anyone rub right over top of it. It is so hard to explain, but it kinda hurts, but is also kind of just an annoying feeling.
But, if you/he rub around it and find your "spot" you will know what to do.
My suggestion is for you to experiment on your own and see what feels good and what doesn't. Then show him what to do and what not to do. It may take some time to get it, but just relax and have fun trying. But, if it doesn't feel right or it hurts, chances are you aren't doing it right.
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PattyV
replied on August 13th, 2004
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the Little Man In the Boat
It is so small, one needs to be very gentle!The feeling of stimulating your clitoris is sometimes very intense and if you are unfamiliar with that,it can be scary.I too would recommend solo exploration to find out how much pressure,speed etc you like.A woman needs a much gentler touch than a man's penis.Do this when you are alone and will not be disturbed.Get a little hand mirror so you can see everything.Your clitoris is between your labia.It looks like a small protrusion of skin.If you touch it,it becomes erect,like a penis.This is the only part of the human body designed solely for pleasure!!!(aren't we ladies lucky!!!)yes it is small,but in the right hands Wink ,can give us huge amounts of pleasure!!!Good luck!!Patty
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