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bd1012 Extremely eHealthy
August 11th, 2004
I am so fed up!!! For those of you who don't know I live with my bf. His mom works at a job where she's kind of like an in home nurse and spends the night on weekdays. His dad works faraway so he spends some nights at his moms near where he works. Well we are 171/2 and 18 years old and they have the brilliant idea of when she's not home he is and when he's not home she is! It's phucking bullschit. I don't work until friday and my bf has his own ride. His dad doesn't do anything all night but sit and lecture us about something and go on and on. Its stupid. I know it's for babysitting purposes without a doubt because one night he stayed there we spent the night at his moms' work and when she told him we weren't coming home he said "well why did I come home". We do not need a babysitter ever phucking night and i'm about to say something to either one of them!! I'm tired of it, this bs has got to end. Evil or Very Mad
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navynukeswife
replied August 11th, 2004
Yeah it sounds pretty f-ed up.
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linuxChique
replied August 11th, 2004
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Oh yeah that is bullsh|t!
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bd1012
replied August 11th, 2004
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They know that we are active so it's not like that, we do it when they are in the other room(door closed of course). Sorry tmi but just letting you know that that's not the reason. My bf is saying that it's his house he should come home when he wants and I agree but it's mostly because if other than babysitting they don't want to see each other and it's fine, just give us at least one night together per week! Sheesh! I don't work until friday, who knows when we may have the chance again!
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hm_03
replied August 11th, 2004
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Wow that really sucks. But let me get this straight I may have it wrong but his mom would be there when his dad is not vice versa? Are they separated or something?

Other than that maybe ya'll should go out where it's just the two of you and if you guys want the house to yourselves maybe ya'll can arrange something but I don't know they seem pretty stubborn to me.

Good luck.
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bd1012
replied August 11th, 2004
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Yeah, it's always the alternate. It's so retarded. They are not seperated but they don't have the best relationship.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
replied August 11th, 2004
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I kno how u feel ma...

When I was pregnant, my parents had made plans one day and when they found out that baby daddy was coming over to stay the night, they cancelled. I'm like damn, I am pregnant and even if we have sex it won't matter... Laughing

they was acting like I could get pregnant a second time right then...
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hm_03
replied August 12th, 2004
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It's funny when parents act like that you are already pregnant so what's the big deal if he comes over. It's so funny

like sometimes when I tell my mom i'm spending the night at my boyfriend she gets all mad like oh people are going to start talking blah, blah, blah. It's like i'm already pregnant they are gonna talk either way. Lol

bd you guys need to do something about that because it's getting to a point where I know you are going to just blow up.
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bd1012
replied August 12th, 2004
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Tonight his mom isn't coming home and he came home last night and tonight I am home so we better f'n have our night or I am going to say something! I work nights and I am off but tomorrow i'm not and it's rare that we have a setup like tonight so we better have it!
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2ferano
replied August 12th, 2004
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Maybe you two should get an apartment? Then you will have your alone time whenever you want!
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bd1012
replied August 12th, 2004
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Lol we need money for that! Everytime something angers me off I add less time to move! Our friends are doing that and i'm so jealous!!!
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2ferano
replied August 12th, 2004
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Yeah, it's not cheap that's for sure. I am sorry, hun. That really sux!
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