God, that lolli was a freakin psycho! Sexist pig. Most likely a southern baptist.
A woman can be what she wants/when and how she wants. Being independent and tough by nature does not make her sadistic or any less of a woman. I know many men who would much rather be with a woman who is strong, tough by nature, strong willed, independent and even cocky then with a sweet innnocent submissive one. True, most men still want the sweet innocent, do what they are told types, but they aren't real men!
I am so tired of the stereotypes of women and this sexist freakin world. People who think that men and women have different roles and blah blah are trash. People have different roles, but it doesn't freakin matter what sex you are. If I want to be a bull-rider which is primarily a man's thing, I will! And if a man wants to stay home and raise the children, great for him! It doesn't make him a sissy nor does it make him gay. It makes him a strong man who is comfortable with himself. And how wonderful for him to be taking responsibility! 3/4 of men still won't change diapers! Even more of them don't take part in raising the children at all! Yeah, they go to work and make money and think that is all they have to do. That doesn't make a good father! That doesn't even make you a father! It makes you a roomate.