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ScaredBaka
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Could I Get Pregnant From "playing" With Him?
Posted: 08-06-04 20:28pm
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Don't worry - the scenario this time isn't
quite the same as my previous pregnancy
thread.
This is embarrassing to discuss, but here
goes: I was giving my boyfriend a hand job
(eww, hate that word), and I was on top of
him. Hard as it is to believe, it wasn't
unconfortable. But anyway, he ejaculated
once, and was well on the way to doing so
a second time. I could feel a sticky
dampness through his mesh shorts. It got
my hand a little sticky; not wet, but
sticky.
When I went to wash my hands in the
bathroom I had to use the toilet first
(i'd had to pee for about 2 hours), and I
went without first washing my hand off.
Then I got a sudden intense itch down
there [from my yeast infection o.O] and I
accidentally scratched with the sticky
hand. I'm really scared I could be
pregnant from such contact.
I checked my jeans as well; they were very
very slightly dampened in front. I
checked my underwear; they were soaked on
the inside, which I can't proudly say came
from me. It was white, but yeah...Yeast
infection, remember.
Note these further details: my entire hand
didn't touch the area - only my fingertips
and nails, but I had squeezed my hand
together earlier when complaining about
the stickyness. Also I didn't go inside
my vaginal area - I only scratched the
outer lips.
When I had wiped myself I may have brushed
against the outer lips a second time as
well. I washed my hands afterwards three
times with soap and water. Within the
next 40 minutes I returned to the bathroom
4 times to wash down there with lots of
liquid soap and water as well as peroxide
(i was desperate). When I got home about
4 hours later I covered my entire genital
area with peroxide and rubbing alcohol. I
didn't know quite how to clean myself so I
chose some germ fighters.
.........................
This time my sexual contact was closer,
with the fluids and all. My boyfriend
assured me a hundred times over I wouldn't
get pregnant, and that the unfriendly
antibodies in the vaginal area would kill
any sperm that might have entered. But I
don't believe that; it only takes one
little sperm to make an embryo.
If it helps at all my last period ended
last weekend, and my next one won't start
until the end of this month.
Someone please help me. I'm deathly
scared right now. I know I should have
been paying closer attention and washed my
hands right away.
................
Could I get pregnant from this?
Can someone confidentally tell me I 100%
will not get pregnant without any
hesitation?
..............
Scaredbaka - hopes she's overreacting
again
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jenih62557
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Posted: 08-10-04 10:24am
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Hello you have nothing to worry about it
you wiped your hand and it
was sticky sperm dies immediately if left
in a pile it can survive for a
while but scratcing absolutely not in all
my four years of being a ob
nurse I have never heard of anything like
that happening so calm down
i promise you'll be fine
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-12-04 04:19am
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It is very, very highly unlikely, but
still possible.
Sperm does not die immediately! My
goodness.
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2ferano
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Proof
Posted: 08-12-04 04:26am
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Kia
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Posted: 08-12-04 04:50am
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Errr I know I replied to this - where did
it go? Oh well i'll do it again.
Nice research! 
that should be a sticky somewhere
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-12-04 06:20am
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I put this "proof" in two different posts
and I saw that you replied to the other
one. It is still there! Don't fret!
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Kia
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Posted: 08-12-04 06:25am
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at me 
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jenih62557
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Posted: 08-12-04 10:19am
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Yes it does sperm dies immediately if
wiped scratched or rubbed
if it's in a pile it stays alive for
awhile you need to get your info some
where else
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-12-04 10:39am
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Okay, now if each individual little sperm
was crushed and killed then okay. But,
if you have sperm on your hand and you rub
it on something, the chances of all of it
dying are quite slim.
You need to get your info somewhere else.
It is very irresponsible of you to be
claiming to be a healthcare professional
and giving these girls false information.
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jenih62557
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Posted: 08-12-04 14:15pm
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Oh but I am a health care professional and
if you have a pile of
sperm on your hand you can not get
pregnant that way if you rub yourself
because as soon as you rub it scratch it
or even mess with it it will die
why don't you call your doctor and ask
they will tell you the same thing
you need to stop giving false info and
scaring people with your false
opinion and yes nothing more then a
opinoin if she would call her
doctor right now and ask that question
they would say no way but if
you want to doubt what I say then do it
some people on here thinks cause
they have a kid there a pro and well not
even close maybe you should
become a nurse if you think your so smart
about pregnancy you'll learn
a bunch of info that you thought you knew
when in fact you really know
nothing on the subject except what web
sites and dictionary's tell you
well let me tell you there obviously not
up to date so i'd advise getting
your info else where and you can keep
saying what you want but when
people read these you look stupid not me
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-12-04 14:20pm
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Hahahahahah. lmao! I look stupid, not
you? You haven't had one true fact yet
my dear! If you get semen on your hand
and then get in near enough to the opening
of your vagina, you can indeed conceive!
Yes, it is a long shot, but sperm does not
die just because you touched it! You are
not a nurse! And if you are then you
need to be fired! You know nothing!
For your information my friend is actually
a nurse and she actually know what she
talks about! You are just silly. I
provided proof! You have nothing, but
what you say. It is you that is stating
only opinion. Grow up and stop lying.
I am not "worrying" anyone. I stated
that it is a long shot, but it can happen
for goodness saked. If "rubbing" killed
sperm then all anyone would have to do is
continue intercourse after the man
ejaculated into her. That way the
"rubbing" would kill the sperm!
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PregnaJordan
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Posted: 08-12-04 14:51pm
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Im glad I dont live where u do--and ppl.
Bware if u do--shes an fool
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Kia
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Posted: 08-12-04 15:13pm
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Jeni did you bother to even look at the
link - by a family planning association -
no? Thought not.
Here it is again so you don't need to
scroll up.
Http://www.Fpaneo.Org/news.A
sp?Id=2
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PattyV
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Posted: 08-12-04 18:58pm
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 she
lives in illinois!!!Hope not near
me!!!!!!Save us all!!Patty
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ScaredBaka
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 08-13-04 00:02am
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Wow, I can see that things have really
heated up here since I made this post.
But I thank everyone for their advice,
even if it conflicts with someone else's.
But as I had said in my original post, my
hand did not go near my vaginal opening,
or even beyond my outer lips - I simply
relieved an itch. And while I too think
the chances are very unlikely, I won't say
it's impossible. Anything is possible.
There is something, though, that I must
question...While I know it takes a single
sperm to fertilize the egg, I have learned
through some research that it takes
millions of sperm to make fertilization
possible. I've read that the sperm will
collide with the egg, slowly dissolving
the protective coating on the egg cell.
Then when the coating has been weakened
enough in one place to allow entry, one
lucky sperm will make it inside. After
that, the egg will repel all other sperm
with small electric waves. While
possible, I really don't think that the
stickyness on my fingertips would contain
millions of sperm (it was like the sticky
feeling you get if you get a little bit of
juice or soda on your hand and let it set
for a minute). Could a past ovulation
reduce my chances of conception?
And I know a woman can get pregnant at
practically any time, but is she not at
her most fertile point during the two
weeks preceeding her period? I know that
my last period began on july 25th and
ended around the 30th, so I think that
might slightly reduce the risk, though i'm
not sure.
But I have another question concerning
pregnancy...Is it true that a girl or
woman will throw up the day after she
conceives?
Also, in the insane event I am pregnant
(god forbid!!), would I not have already
displayed signs of it? Though i'm sort of
confident i'm not pregnant, I still worry.
My next period won't come for another
couple of weeks, and I don't want to be a
nervous wreck until then.
............
Scaredbaka - needs to pay more attention
in the event of future physical situations
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Kia
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Posted: 08-13-04 03:24am
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Hi
no not every woman throws up after she
concieves (maybe some do but its not a
typical symptom).
Symptoms appear at different times for
virtually every woman. At 2 weeks after
conception I had such sore boobs and they
grew a cup size too, early I know but they
seem to have stopped now and dont hurt so
much.
Morning sickness (any time of day/night)
usually occurs between 4 and 12 weeks -
siad to ease off around 12 weeks because
the placenta takes over hormone production
and nutrient exchange to the baby now it
is fully formed (instead of the yolk
sac).
But I am really sure that you don't have
anything to worry about.
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2ferano
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Posted: 08-13-04 04:55am
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I cannot answer some of your questions,
hun, sorry, but I really do not know the
answers.
But, you are most likely not pregnant. I
was just clearing up the fact that sperm
does not die immediately, but I was not
saying that in your exact situation you
needed to worry. So, don't fret!
Good luck.
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PattyV
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Sorry,baka!
Posted: 08-13-04 09:09am
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Sorry for getting off topic,but sometimes
you can't help it.It is unlikely that you
are pregnant,but yes,there are millions of
sperm in what seems to us a minute
amount.You are probably not pregnant,but
indeed you do need to be more careful in
the future.It is very easy to get carried
away when things feel soooooo goooood.See
a gynecologist to discuss birth control
options before you actually need them.Best
to you!Patty
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 08-13-04 16:29pm
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People who think you can get pregnant in
this manner should not be having
sex-simple as that.Get on birth control of
you're that concerned
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pitterpatter
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Posted: 08-17-04 00:50am
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Amen to that!
Oh and to the "nurse" you don't sound
professional at all and if you were I
would still question your proffesionality.
You can't write correctly and most
nurses would have no reason for the most
part to get on this site. And as to the
sperm problem, anytime you have any kind
of sexual relations there is always a
possibility of getting pregnant. It may
be unlikely in situations, but you can't
100% reasure someone that is sexually
active that they will not ever get
pregnant. So umm... Now I feel better
after venting a bit!
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