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Q: First Sexual Experiance

asked by: ~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~ on August 6th, 2004

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Alright,

i have never had sex before, i'm not planning on it anytime soon. But i'm scared that because i'm going into highschool, that there is going to be more pressure for having sex. Yeah there is already quite a bit of pressure now, but I dont want to break upder the pressure now. I have a boyfriend, and I know skyler wants to have sex. I told him that I didnt want to and he understood. But now he is pressuring me even more since we are in highschool. Cause "everybodys doing it" yeah maybe I want to a little Rolling Eyes

but I really dont know how. And I know that he doesnt either. I just dont want to mess up. I want to do it the right way.
If anyone has advice..I would be sure to take it!

Replies(6)

PregnaJordan

replied on August 6th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

From ur past posts about suicide attempts and cutting, I dont think ur ready 2 assume the responsibilities that come with sex....If yur suicidal u need help, not sex hun...Just my advice, dont take it tha wrong way

insurancegirl

replied on August 6th, 2004

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Kia

replied on August 6th, 2004

Supporter

Couldn't agree more with the other 2 posts.
If you are going to have sex then you have to be capable of accepting the risks of parenthood.
Ask yourself (when sober and straight - not saying you aren't but for any others that may read this for advice). Look in the mirror, look yourself in the eye and say "am I ready for sex, is this what I really want?" if you can say honestly to yourself the answer is yes - then perhaps you are ready.
If you think maybe I am, I might like it but... Then you definately are not ready.
Good luck be strong
kia

linuxChique

replied on August 6th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I agree too. Your virginity is sooo special. Think of it as your most prized possession. You've got to make sure the person you give it to is going to be sticking around forever! And high school is way to early to make those kinds of decisions. I was a virgin up until the day I was married, and I am soooo glad.

Sex is definitely one of those things that you've .G.O.T to make up your mind about before anything happens. That way, you aren't stuck making a decision under the influence of alcohol, drugs, horomones, peer pressure, whatever.

PregnaJordan

replied on August 7th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

~*~bree~*~bree~*~ wrote:

i dont think that many people know how serious it is to have depression, so many days that all I wanna do it cry, and I think about what it would be like or if people would care if I just died, with this depression my mind is numb to the feeling of people loving me, I think that not many people really and truly love me, and that scares the living crap outta me. The medicine is helping and I am clamer that I have ever been! I just need to get over the cutting and suicide attempts...

this is a past post---u pm me an say ur not suicidal and never tried...Hmmm...I dont care 4 gods sakes! Do wut uu want---have 12 kids...I got other things to worry about not ur stupid, omg highschool, pressure--blahdy blah

sparklypixie12

replied on August 7th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Lol jordan

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