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Q: Pregnancy Through Dry-humping Right Before Period?
asked by: twinkle_star on August 6th, 2004
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I never intended to have sex, but I did, and I ended up pregnant. I caught it -very-early on--the doctor told me I was "just barely pregnant"--a few days earlier and there would have been nothing on the ultrasound. I ended it chemically on june 1, which was uncomfortable but not emotionally draining or too painful. However, that was enough for me and I decided never to have sex again until I am married, and on birth control.

Here's my problem. A male friend that I had not seen in a while got drunk and decided it would be a good idea to convince me to sleep with him by pulling his pants down, pulling my skirt up, and trying to dry-hump me. I was wearing underwear, of course, and he didn't get a chance to take his off before I convinced him to stop it. I don't think his underwear was wet at all, and I he did not ejaculate. 6-12 hours later, I had my period. It ended on july 6, and I have not yet gotten it for this month. I am sometimes very irregular, and frequently run on a 30 day cycle. However, this time I am feeling extremely paranoid and afraid, and the thought suddenly hit me that I might be pregnant. I have had no symptoms of pregnancy, as I did last time, but none of my usual pms symptoms either.
I need to try and get a test, but I have no driver's license, and I have a very nosy mother and friends, so that's a bit difficult at the moment. I have been researching and researching, and I just need some reassurance. What are the chances of me being pregnant? Could my body still just need to adjust from the previous pregnancy?
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linuxChique
replied on August 6th, 2004
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Yes, there is a high possibility that this is still your body adjusting to your abortion, and no chance whatsoever that you are pregnant. As you know, sperm is absolutly required for a pregnancy, and there was none involved. I think you just need to wait it out.
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Kia
replied on August 6th, 2004
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I have to agree with linuxchique.
I really don't think there is even a remote possibility that you are pregnant.
Hormones take a while to settle down after an abortion.
I took a pregnancy test a month after mine and it came up positive (i was really scared that they hadn't done it right - needless to say I wasn't but it didn't stop me worrying) so don't be too hasty or you may worry yourself about nothing.
Also worrying could delay your period.
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twinkle_star
replied on August 8th, 2004
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I'm sure you're both probably right. I'm just feeling very paranoid and jumpy after I had to have the abortion. I -really- don't want to have to experience that again, especially in this situation where I didn't even try to do anything sexual.

I guess I just keep worrying what if something -did- somehow make it past both of our underwear? Even though I had my period right after that, could I have ovulated again right as my period was beginning? (although I know that sounds far-fetched and bizarre)

i'm just feeling so frightened because I had my period about 4 weeks after the abortion, and now it's been longer than that and nothing. I guess i'll just try to be patient.
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trevino61601
replied on August 10th, 2004
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Relax...
Sometimes it can take up to 3 or more months for your cycle to regulate after an abortion. You can get more than 1 period in a month or none at all. I am pretty sure you are safe to just wait it out.

Good luck!
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