look, alot of people on this forum are being a bit crazy about this one question. We all know starving is bad, people aren't stupid, starving messes up your body. We all know healthy eating & exercise is the way to go & keeping that lifestyle is a good way to maintain weight. But what a lot of people forget is that when you get fat, you get lethargic, to the point {in worst case situations} not wanting to even move out of bed in the morning.
Alot of health freaks just keep moaning, screaming even "EXERCISE, STOP BEING LAZY!" but it's not that easy if you're big. There's no will power, there's no incentive to go out & jog or walk for ages. I mean, if it's the option to a fat person to either go sweat like a pig for an hour a day or sit on your arse & watch tv then clearly there's gonna be no contest & the latter will win hands down.
I say this cause i know it, right now i'm at 24 stone. But it wasn't always this way. Being pregnant shot me from 19 stone to 24, & my eating habbits from pregnancy have carried on even after my son was born this March. But just over a year ago i weighed 17 stone, the smallest i'd been in years. I was so proud, & i did it through starving myself. And as i've already stated, i know it was a bad way to do it but it's what i thought was best for the time. I tried dieting & exercising. But i was always too tired, too hungry, too depressed about not having decent enough results FAST & not enough will power too see a diet through. I was at a point of waking up at 3pm most days, waddling my 25stone arse down to the shops to buy cigarettes & booze & anything cheap & quick to stuff in my face... I was nothing, didn't want to exist. I lived by myself, i had tons of friends but couldn't stand having company. Then one day i thought what am i doing?! Starving was my only option in my eyes & it worked for me. In less than 6 months i plummeted to 19 stone. The confidence boost was amazing, i got into smaller clothes, i looked sexy & i felt great. I started walking, i walked everywhere listening to my mp3 player & i gained muscle in my legs & bum {something which was previously foreign to my body} but even then i continued to starve... not because i wanted to but mainly cause i didn't have an urge to eat. My stomach had shrank & i didn't feel hungry very often. When i began to eat again it was mainly soup & a roll but still i wasn't eating daily. I met my fiance & managed to maintain a weight of 18 stone even after living with him for a year & eating PROPER portions of food again.
So basically, it is possible to starve & then start a healthy diet if you choose to. It's your body, do what you want to do with it. Just don't be stupid & get to the point of anorexic.
I'm starting my starvation cycle again, having my son has wrecked my body & i've lost all control... But yet again i have that same old feeling of what am i doing with myself. So i'm doing it all again, i've done it before & trust me, once you see those pounds drop off that scale you'll feel so happy it's unreal. And that boost can usually lead you to want to go out & improve the amount of weight you lose.
I hope my babbling helped, i know alot of people will probably frown on this but so what, it's my opinion, my experiances & i'm entitled to my say. But most importantly, everyone is different, everyone has their own methods of doing things, so don't pressurize people into doing diets which don't work for them. Just let people choose what they're comfortable in doing.