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Q: Pregnant?

asked by: Kellyh1528 on September 28th, 2003

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I got a problem, but before I go on, please dont judge me for what I did, and dont critize me..I know what I did was wrong...I have been with james for 2 years, we was high school sweethearts, I got pregnant by him..And had an abortion..Which I really regret..And not a day goes by that I dont think of that baby...Well james and I argued alot and we decided to take a break this summer..We planned on getting back together later on towards september when things were going better. Well...I had a one night stand with a friend named robbie that I haven known for a long time....We didnt use protection, yes I know a big no no...This happend on august 16th...Later on james and I got together and had sex often...After the 28th of august...Well I am late..My last period was august 18th..And I was suppose to start september 15th..Since I had my period after robbie I guess robbie is elimated?? I am not for sure and need some advice..Not to mention I had my period also on the 8th of august..So I am totally messed up..The 8th and 18th..I took a test...Today on september 28th and it came back negative..And I dont know what to do...Do you think there is a chance that robbie could be the dad...And if you think I am pregnant by chance? I do have symtptoms because I was pregnant before and there is no doubt in my mind I am keeping this baby...Both james and robbie know what is going on...Robbie said if it was his he would take responsibility and so didnt james..And I plan on still being with james..Please dont call me a promiscuous person, prostitute or anything I know what I did was wrong, I just need some honest opinions...And if there is any other way of finding out I am pregnant!! Thanks for you time

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Suzy

replied on September 28th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Possible Pregnancy

Dear kelly,

hi, wow you poor thing you are kind of all messed up. Firstly, I am not the one to judge you, what you do is none of my business, you have come asking for help and that is what we are all here for. From the dates you have provided it looks as though your last 2 periods were only 10 days apart, are your periods normally this irregular ? The fact that you were with robbie on august 16th and you got a period august 18th and your pregnancy test came back negative, I highly doubt you are pregnant. You have given it enough time for the hcg levels (or pregnancy levels) to build up in your body so it is now you can expect accurate results. So relax and don't worry too much, just be careful in the future, have you considered birth control pills ? They are very reliable these days. Otherwise you may be able to talk with your doctor about other contraception methods. Good luck kelly,

.::suzy::.

Darling

replied on September 28th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Suzy is right. I hope everything works out for you and that you overcome the guilt you feel due to the abortion you had. You did what you felt was right, and no one can hold that against you. Don't dwell on your past, just look forward to a bright, beautiful future.
Much love

Suzy

replied on September 28th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Dear kelly,

as you can see there are many supportive people here to help you. Beautiful post tanya, that was very supportive and understanding. Good on you.

Regards,

.::suzy::.

KissyBai912

replied on October 17th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I don't think you are pregnant. And you are by no means, a promiscuous person. I had a two night fling with my babys daddy, and I didnt expect it to turn into a big deal, but it did. So now we have more to do with each other than I ever imagined. Lol. But just to console you, I do not think you are a promiscuous person. And if you are pregnant, I doubt that robbie is the father.

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