(i've read the stickies, i've read up extensively. I just need some human feedback.)

i know my girlfriend well. She gets horny around the middle of her cycle (i'm assuming her "fertile" time) and when we go out and do anything, she always ends up wanting to fool around. This i'm fine with.

I'm afraid we might've taken it too far with latest events.

We were fooling around, passionately.. Etc etc.. Dry "sex" (clothes on) proceeded to just underwear, to nothing at all. Not once did I insert, at all. She wanted me to rub up and down on her vagina, which I understand.. But at the time I didn't even think twice about the possibility of a pregnancy because a: it was pre-ejaculate and b: i've read "facts" that if you've urinated since the last time you ejaculated, pre-ejaculate has little or no sperm.

Now i'm concerned, as it's been a week and a half since the incident, approximately 4 weeks since her last period, and she's beginning to be irritable and very.. Not in the mood. This happens before her regular period, but usually she begins her period the day right after her moodiness. Today was that day, to no avail.

Tonight, we went out for ice cream.. She finished hers, and 30 minutes later, she began having stomach aches.. Possibly nausea, but I think just an ache. She felt as if she might have a fever and she seemed very "blah". I understand, since she had a stomach ache and felt feverish. I'm writing it off on her diet and her lack of sleep. She has to get up in the mornings now and march for drill team from 8-3.

Anyway, long to short, we fooled around, no condoms.. I did not ejaculate until after I had come in contact with the area above her vagina's "hole," and I had not ejaculated since the day before, so I am unsure if my pre-ejaculate contained sperm.

What are the odds?

And if she is pregnant, since we're both young and we both must go to college (seperately), is the best solution an abortion? Will it hurt her, physically and emotionally? I really care about the girl.. So much.. I don't want her parents to hate me if she's pregnant.. And I also don't want them to hate me if we decide to get an abortion.

Again, this is all just my incredibly far-sighted thinking. I do this for everything. What a curse.