How Do I Deal With This Dilemma Posted: 08-02-04 08:28am
Long story short.... Left my girlfriend 8
1/2 months ago for a work assignment. I
came back just in time to see my son born.
We haven't had sex as she needed time to
heal. Just last week I had an outbreak
of warts in my genital area. I was told
that I have genital warts and understand
that I could have had it for years without
knowing it. But as her healing time is
coming to a close she is mentioning sex
and counting down to the exact day and
hour that we have the green light. The
only thing that concerns me is that when I
tell her I have this is that she will
think I was cheating while I was away no
matter how much I explain that I could
have been carrying this virus for years.
I care about her a lot and I also don't
want her to get vindictive and use my
newborn son as a weapon. How do I handle
this?
