My boyfriend just told me that he told his
grandma that I could be pregnant. She
freaked out, and said that if I was
pregnant, then she wants me to give the
baby up for adoption. Since cody's only
17, he can't move here without her
consent. I"m scared that he won't be here
until he turns 18 (which won't be until
the baby 3 months old). I'm so scared.
But I think that if I a pregnant, and his
grandma will hopefully change her
mind...
Any advice? Or anything? What should I
do?
Thanks guys!!
*shawna (aim sn=nirvangurl4694)
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 09-27-03 21:07pm
Oh shawna im sorry his grandma reacted
that way. Im sure she was just upset and
shocked. I think if you are pregnant she
would want her grandson to be the best
father he could be. She cant stop him
from being there for you. Also you can
move out of your house when your 16. Are
you thinking about adoption at all? Or
are you sure you want to keep this baby?
Its always something to look into! Keep
us posted darling.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 63 Location: Oregon
Posted: 09-27-03 22:39pm
I am not even considering adoption...I
wont be 16 until about a month before the
baby would be born. I would want him to
be here thru my pregnancy, birth and for
the baby everyday. I just hope she
changes her mind! Thanks for the help
"darling"
~shawna (aim sn-nirvanagurl4694)
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 09-27-03 22:45pm
This is tanya, by the way. I had to
change my username, just incase you
remeber me from answering some of your
other posts!
Much love
tanya
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 09-27-03 22:48pm
When you find out your pregnant you might
want to set up a "family meeting" with his
family and yours so that you can all
discuss what's going to be going on and
how you are going to go through this
pregnancy. It will be a bit awkard but I
think it would help everyone, and give
people a chance to say what they want.
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TurtleGrl03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 63 Location: Oregon
Posted: 09-28-03 01:23am
It's not really possible to set up a
family meeting, he lives 2500 miles away.
So thats kinda hard. The best I can do is
talk to his grandma over the phone.
Thanks for the advice. Love yas!
