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Q: Scared..

asked by: TurtleGrl03 on September 27th, 2003

Experienced User

My boyfriend just told me that he told his grandma that I could be pregnant. She freaked out, and said that if I was pregnant, then she wants me to give the baby up for adoption. Since cody's only 17, he can't move here without her consent. I"m scared that he won't be here until he turns 18 (which won't be until the baby 3 months old). I'm so scared. But I think that if I a pregnant, and his grandma will hopefully change her mind...

Any advice? Or anything? What should I do?

Thanks guys!!
*shawna (aim sn=nirvangurl4694)

Replies(5)

Darling

replied on September 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Oh shawna im sorry his grandma reacted that way. Im sure she was just upset and shocked. I think if you are pregnant she would want her grandson to be the best father he could be. She cant stop him from being there for you. Also you can move out of your house when your 16. Are you thinking about adoption at all? Or are you sure you want to keep this baby? Its always something to look into! Keep us posted darling.

TurtleGrl03

replied on September 27th, 2003

Experienced User

I am not even considering adoption...I wont be 16 until about a month before the baby would be born. I would want him to be here thru my pregnancy, birth and for the baby everyday. I just hope she changes her mind! Thanks for the help "darling"

~shawna (aim sn-nirvanagurl4694)

Darling

replied on September 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

This is tanya, by the way. I had to change my username, just incase you remeber me from answering some of your other posts!
Much love
tanya

Darling

replied on September 27th, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

When you find out your pregnant you might want to set up a "family meeting" with his family and yours so that you can all discuss what's going to be going on and how you are going to go through this pregnancy. It will be a bit awkard but I think it would help everyone, and give people a chance to say what they want.

TurtleGrl03

replied on September 28th, 2003

Experienced User

It's not really possible to set up a family meeting, he lives 2500 miles away. So thats kinda hard. The best I can do is talk to his grandma over the phone. Thanks for the advice. Love yas!

~shawna (aim sn-nirvanagurl4694)

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