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Q: Please Read I Need Help
asked by: ihaveaquestion1234 on July 31st, 2004
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Hi everyone! I just need some quick opinions or advice.
Im 18 and have never been eaten out. Not because im unattractive.
I am a model, 5 10, blonde, thin, blue eyes, pretty.
The only thing is, I am very self conscious down there.
My lips hang out past where my vagina ends and they stick out and I feel as if guys will find this weird or disgusting.
Does anyone else know what I mean?
And do guys care? How can I get over this?
Help me im so frustrated because I am ready to go further its just im afraid of what guys will think! Thanks!


Embarassed
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ihaveaquestion1234
replied on July 31st, 2004
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Oh Yeah...
Oh sorryt I forgot to say, please dont answer with what you think will be comforting, answer with what you really think!! If you think its gross you can say so. If you think it sfine you can say so too. Thanks I just need some honest opinions!
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Pixie
replied on July 31st, 2004
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Deleate
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PattyV
replied on August 1st, 2004
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Have you seen nude pics of pamela anderson??She has very large lips and it has not hurt her career one bit!!Ireally never thought about my lips before,but mine are kind of longish and very dark,not real pretty in my mind.My husband loves!!!To give me oral and does not seem to be a problem!Love yourself for who you are and someone will love you as well.We are all different shapes and sizes,that's what makes all of us unique!Best of luck to you!!!Patty
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miller2190
replied on August 3rd, 2004
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I doubt any guy would care
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cherry_pie
replied on August 4th, 2004
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Ya...All girls look different down there...And when it comes to the guy, I don't think they really care what you look like, im sure their not taking notes and comparing from woman to woman "oh, the last woman I was with looked like this..." just doesn't happen. Just be happy with who you are.. Because there is no 'normal' when it comes to something like that!
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Pixie
replied on August 4th, 2004
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Re: It 's Called a ...
lollipop4u wrote:
female part of the body man/gynecologic surgeon . He can simply slice those " elephant ears " off ! Which by the way got there from having alot of sex so so much for your poor sheltered life story ! Thanks . Bye .



that is really voulger, totally untrue, rude and very classless.

I personally spent many years off and on living cellubate and yes that includes no masturbation! I lived this way for years before my area grew and after for spiritual practises and also that I generally only get involved with people for the right reasons.

I do not have a poor sheltered life story, but I question your own poor sheltered mind!

I love my beautiful vagina~!
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oopoopoop
replied on August 4th, 2004
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What a bizarre idea! It's like suggesting that if you eat a lot of bananas your (face) lips will get bigger!
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princess529_98
replied on August 4th, 2004
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Lol
Well I eat alot of cucumbers from my garden so does that mean my lips are just gonna get bigger now too?? What color is the sky in your world lollipop?
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thexmen
replied on August 4th, 2004
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Lips
Well I would like to see it for myself then I would be able to tell you my opnion. I have a feeling because my tongue does not have eyes it should not be a problem.
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Pixie
replied on August 4th, 2004
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I personally request a mod to give lollipop4u a warning or to ban this user all together!

That comment and "demand" of all so knowing in such a twisted way that lollipop4u threw my way is seriously inappropriate! Even though I do not feel degraded...Lollipop4u, you only degraded yourself! But also leave your trash in your own yard and don't toss it at me! Never not once had I ever mentioned that I engage in sex or masturbate frequently...To which is beside the point. Nor am I here to degrade other people...I share my experiences with others just as others do too. If you don't like where I come from...Ignore my posts then!

Take a hike lollipop4u!!!! I think you're a disgust in nature!

Poopoopoo, I recall hearing a joke about a decade ago...Some men read this in an adult magazine in the joke session...As to what lollipop4u mentioned.
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PattyV
replied on August 4th, 2004
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Lollipop,the size of your body parts is genetic.Just like you cannot help the size of your teeny,tiny,itsy,bitsy,miniscule,lilliputia n......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... .......................................... ......B.R.A.I.N.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Geez,what a person!!Patty
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ihaveaquestion1234
replied on August 5th, 2004
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Thanks
Thanks to all of you that responded seriously...
But I mean are you just trying to make me feel better?
Or do guys really not care/think about that?
Cuz im so paranoid about it and im sleeping over my boyfriends house this weekend and im thinking about whether or not I should finally just stop being self conscious so plz tell me if ur just saying that or if guys really dont care
thanks a lot, bye

and lollipop, ur post made me laugh thanks
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PattyV
replied on August 6th, 2004
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Darlin,most guys are just happy to have the pleasure of your company.I think most guys are just fine with a vagina as long as the partner is willing and ready.Relax and enjoy the oral experience.Most guys are happy to have a willing partner,i doubt that most will notice or care.I am assuming that this guy is a long term commitment,so he must have some idea of how you feel!?If he knows how you feel, he will probably be extra aware and do his best to please you.You are just fine and if he is willing and you are willing,go for it!Accept your body as it is,confidance is a powerful aphrodisiacpatty
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2ferano
replied on August 8th, 2004
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Yeah, something has definately got to be done about lollipop. This user claims to be "laura" but all of his (yes, his) posts about sex proove that he is really a very sexist, uneducated and inexperienced man.
Very ignorant indeed.

It is not from having too much sex! That is just crazy! Even 14 year old boys know that isn't true.

Love your body!
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PattyV
replied on August 8th, 2004
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You are old enough to know better!
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2ferano
replied on August 8th, 2004
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Wow, you have serious issues. Please do the world a favor and get help.
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2ferano
replied on August 8th, 2004
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A playful attitude towards sex? No, you don't. If that was it all would be fine. All you do is insult people and that is not playful.
Also, you are not very educated in sex. "from too much sex" yeah right.
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NYGUY
replied on August 9th, 2004
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That is totally untrue and you, my friend, are an uneducated person.
"thanks bye"
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2ferano
replied on August 10th, 2004
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You did not offer up a solution! You came on here insulting her and acting like a little boy. Just do us all a favor and go away.
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