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Q: Some One Please Help Me, Im Only 16!
asked by: kitty on September 27th, 2003
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I am 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex last weekend 6 times and we used a condom once, and the pull out method all the other times. My period is supposed to start tomorrow. I have had the worst stomach aches since monday and today is saturday. I havent thrown up or anything, but I feel like I need to. I have bad cramps in my sides. My boobs feel like they ususally do before me period. They arent swollen and they dont hurt too bad. I do have breast lumps though, ive had them for a long long time. I am still having vaginal discharge also.

My point exactly - could I be pregnant? Or is it too early for symptoms to appear?

Some one please help me!
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youngmama
replied on September 27th, 2003
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It could be too early for symptoms and still too early for a test. Since you used the pull out method the chance of pregnancy is a little higher because of pre-cum and because of how often you did it in that short amount of time. However since you probably weren't ovulating I wouldn't freak out just yet. More than likely you will begin your regular cycle in the next couple of days!
Good luck and keep me posted!

Much love
-jessika-
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kitty
replied on September 27th, 2003
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Jessika
What do you think the stomach aches and the cramps are from? I never have stomach aches and I usually never get cramps before my period. I dont want to worry too much so my period will come the day its supposed to.
Also, I am having really bad back aches in my lower back. I have had back aches before, but they are hurting now more than they have ever before. Is that a sign that I am pregnant?
What do you think the chances of me being pregnant are?
Thank you jessika!
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youngmama
replied on September 27th, 2003
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Well stomach cramps can be any number of things, pulled muscles, stretching of the stomach muscles if you have recently been involved in a fast paced sport. Stomach aches could be a never ending list of thing, food poisoning, stomach flu, stress or tension. Backaches could be occuring from the same thing as stomach cramps. While they are a sign of being pregnant those signs generally don't show up until roughly 2-8 weeks after conception and it is more towards the 8th week than the 2nd. I can't give you an actual estimate of your chances but if I had to guess I would say the likeliness of you being pregnant is low, since you can only get pregnant during ovulation which is about 12-14 days before your next cycle.

Hope this helps
much love
-jessika-
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kitty
replied on September 27th, 2003
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Well see, everytime I tell someone that my stomach hasnt stopped hurting for a week, they ask me "your not pregnant are you?" I think thats what got me so scared. I dont plan on having unprotected sex again (that one was for you, nikki!)
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alecia779
replied on September 28th, 2003
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Kitty, remember we are friends and I am here for you. Dont let what anyone says to you get to you. If you are pregnant then I will help you cuz I am in the same situation.
Love alecia
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heidi6669
replied on September 29th, 2003
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Kitty
Kitty it seems like you are already getting pleanty of help . . . But I just wanted to let you know that i'm only 14 and i'm not sure wether or not i'm pregnant either . . . So I wish you the best of luck and hope things turn out for the best.
~*heidi*~
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kitty
replied on October 1st, 2003
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Okay.. I am really scared now. I am late on my period 2 days! Im not sick or anything. Another thing that is scaring me is my left boob is hurting really bad. I did get hit there yesterday. Could that be why? But it hurts really bad. I havent taken a test yet. What is the deal?
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nikki_caro
replied on October 1st, 2003
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Hey what did I say? That you put "that one was for you nikki" I never sent a post to you. Just because I say be protected doesnt mean to get mad about it. Everyone says to be protected not just me. I guess its just not my week. Anyway, your only 2 days late, you can take a test in the morning or you are just late. It happens to everyone. Im never on time. Always a week late or more. So it doesnt bother me. Your stressing out and that might be whats causing it to be late. Just wait see if it comes or take a test in the morning.
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insurancegirl
replied on October 1st, 2003
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kitty
replied on October 1st, 2003
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Does it sound like im pregnant?
Also, I have been eating alot.... Is that a symptom.
I usually never eat alot.
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nikki_caro
replied on October 1st, 2003
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No it doesnt. You should take a test to be sure though.
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kitty
replied on October 1st, 2003
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Sorry again nikki. Thanks for the help.
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kitty
replied on October 3rd, 2003
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Now im an having to go to the bathroom more. I am having bad cramps. I am going to go take a test but iwant advice before I do.

Now does it sound like I am?
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nikki_caro
replied on October 3rd, 2003
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Cramps could be a sign of your period coming or pregnancy cramps. You really need to take a test though instead of worrying about symptoms because a test is the sure thing that will tell you. Not just guessing. Good luck.
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ladynature
replied on October 7th, 2003
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This Goes Out to Kitty
Kitty yes you can get symtoms early,im 16 years old and im 1 month pregnant. I started geting symtoms 3 day after we had sex I was bloated constapted n no one knew y ? So we went 2 the doctors n they wnted to do sugery so in order to do surgery they had 2 take a pregnancy test n it came bac positive.So yes you can get symptoms early my name is diamond I would love to keep in contact with you holla bac at me with the results
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Mesmerizeu15
replied on October 7th, 2003
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I am 16 and I have a 5 month old son, I can't say anything about symptoms because I didn't have any. I didn't get the morning sickness I didn't get anything like that. But I will tell you this I once spent the weekend at my boyfriends house and we did the same thing except the times after the first he nutted in me. The first one is Confused Usually Confused Don't quote me on that. The first one is usually the one that carries what we all know as our angels. I still agree like I always do, with the rest of the girls when I say, go and get a test hun. None of us can take it for you and none of us can make you take it. If you aren't pregnant you now know to have protected sex. And another thing before I sign off if you are pregnant all the stress that it seems like you are going through is only hurting the baby...And if you aren't pregnant you are hurting yourself. Be careful...

I am here for you if you need me.
Mesmerizeu15 aka mezzy

aol sn: mesmerizeu15 (send me a message!)
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