Tell your doctor that you would like to try vestibular therapy -- see end. Also remember to always take your meclyzine -- sometimes I have to take five pills or more a day so I don't have an episode.
I will tell you that stress, lack of sleep and caffeine/tobacco/alcohol can make the symptoms worse. You need to know your triggers to an episode and try to avoid them.
Sounds to me like you have meniere's. I had my first episode last january while waiting to pick up my children from daycare. My head starting feeling very strange and everything appeared to be amplified. Somehow I was able to drive home safely, was dizzy -- don't ever do this -- and by the time I got home, I was able to unlock the door and get to the bathroom to throw for quite a while. Then I passed out. My oldest daughter had gotten her sister's ready for school the next day and had called a friend to pick them up. I didn't know what the heck was going on!
Then I had another episode that friday night. I decided to go to the emergency room at ohio state on saturday, they did a cat scan and spinal tap to check for meningitis. Everything there was good.
I got on the internet and put in my symptoms and bam -- there it was meniere's disease and I knew that I had it. I made an appointment for my doctor, she told me to keep taking my meclyzine and phengran that I got from the hospital.
After about three months or so of continuously feeling like crap, she referred me to an ent. He did not tell me right away that I had meniere's -- even though I already knew -- doctor's have to wait for a few months to see if any other symptoms may arise because there are other diseases that mimic the ones of meniere's. I had an mri to check for a tumor -- none. Finally, he said yes you have meniere's. I had my hearing checked and am losing my hearing in the left ear.
I typically feel bad for a while before I have an episode, maybe a week and sometimes I just want to not take my meclyzine so I can have my episode and get back to feeling like myself. And I have found if I don't have an episode that when I do it will be a bad one, especially if I have not been myself for a while.
I don't get earaches, just tinnitus very bad and when an episode is about to happen everything is very loud and sounds as though right in my ear.
I will tell you to talk to your doctor about vestibular therapy; I am not able to do it because the place that does it here, where I live, does not accept my insurance and I can not afford it. They say it is good. I checked it out on the net and it is a type of physical therapy that makes you dizzy to over-compensate (i guess) for your loss of balance at times. I will put this on the first line in case you don't want to read all of this.