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March 5th, 2008
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I had this problem till yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just calmed down and told him what to do! Don't be shy, relax your body and only think about how it feels. Sometimes I have to pretend he's not there (like when you masterbate) cuz I would get too nervous and I couldnt do it. We used lube and I had him rub my clit a LOT before intercourse. Then BOOOM as soon as he put it in (and was still rubbing me).
Cant wait till he gets off of work today! Very Happy
Read my post "I want to". HTH
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replied April 14th, 2008
About the bleeding or it hurting after sex... I was kinda confused whether or not you said you do bleed or you want to bleed or you haven't ever bled. Your hymen (or what makes you bleed the first time) can be broken when you were little from things like riding a bike, doing the splits etc... If you are bleeding and you have been sexually active for years can be a sign of something else and I would highly suggest going to see your gyno. If you have been with a lot of partners I would suggest STD testing and a pap smear.
Now for my question, I have just recently started having sex with my husband... we just got married and we waited til marriage. I can get off using my vibrator ( the rabbit BEST THING EVER) but I have yet to be able to have one with him (oral or intercourse) Im not sure what to do, I would like to just have it be him giving me the orgasm without using a toy etc. Any suggestions on positions or anything? Im new at this please help. Im very knowledgeable about the health aspect of it just not the actual doing it.. Im a nurse...Thanks!
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replied January 18th, 2009
I cant get an orgasm during sex...help :cry:
hey i have the same problem with not orgasming during intercourse, its the wierdest thing i get soo close and then theres nothing it can be soo frustrating at times. Ive only recently started having sexual intercourse, and iv always managed to have a clitoral stimulated orgams before by myself and even now with my boyfriend i manage to orgasm when he goes down on me. I know this may sound really weird bt how does a vaginal orgasm feel like? is it very much different frm a clitoral one? Because on Friday i thought i had an orgasm , i gt really increadibally wet all of a sudden , bt im not sure if it was . i know it sounds silly bt could someone please outline briefly the differences between the two orgasms
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replied February 23rd, 2009
why cant i have an orgasm?
need advice. i have had the proverbial wet dream, but i reality i never had an orgasm. i am a little embarrassed to play with myself. any suggestions?
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replied February 24th, 2009
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i used to have the same problem until i started getting on top. i found that when i am on top it is very easy for me to cum because i am bieng stimulated with insertion and with my clit
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replied March 16th, 2009
Cant Get an orgasum during sex but masterbaiting i can!?
I Can easly get an orgasum by my self! I can get one in like two minuts! But when having sex i cant at all! I tried and tried! I also have female ajaculation and i think when its like full it makes things more intense but then it starts to hurt and pushes him out of me? I dont know if thats normal? Its like im feeling WAY good but its not reaching to my climax! I dont know maybe im not intrested in my boyfrind? Cause i keep having second thoughts about him and iv onlt had sex with him and iv gotten one orgasum form him and its when we first tried to put it in and it hurt but gave me a "painful" orgasum. But what can i do?
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replied March 16th, 2009
to mellybaby and for anyone else with the same problem.
well...i have about the same problem. it's every once in a great while i can actually get lucky and have an orgasm without any stimulation whatsoever.

every other time i use lots of foreplay and exploring of the body, meaning he just explores me completely until i start to throb and ache for him to enter, and i explore him completely at the sametime. as he does enter i tend to use a little vibrating helper to continue the stimulation as he is inside me. believe me it works...you begin to feel all your blood rush forward and start to moan harder, and your inside walls tighten so much onto him that it turns him on making it that more intense for you to climax either with him or as well as him. if you decide to try it...let me know how it worked for you.
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replied March 20th, 2009
tawnilee24
you are welcome. i hope anything i said works for you. let me know how things are going for you and if things have gotten better with your relationship as far as sexually...if you don't mind.
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replied March 23rd, 2009
where do i get Sentia pills? is it a prescription?
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replied March 23rd, 2009
where do we get these Sentia pills? Is it by prescription?
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replied March 28th, 2009
i need help
well when me and my fiancee are haveing sex it feels great of course but i dont ever have an orgasim but he does and when he goes down stairs i use my vibrator and that dont help concernedgf where did your hubby get that ladybug thing cuz i want to give that a try and what else can i do to help me to reach my climax i have tryed everything but the gels that they say are to hepl heat you and make sex feel better so you can reach your climax but i dont no what to do please help me :'(
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replied April 16th, 2009
ive never had an orgasem
im 15..me and my bf have tried to get me to orgasem but i cant....hes my first serious boyfriend and i want to have an orgasem but i cant and it sucks. a few weeks ago he was fingering me and there was blood and then again the next day...we didnt get it...i thought maybe it was m hymen but he started fingering me months ago. im not sure what to do...i just want to have a n oragsem really bad......i might go to a gyno but it would be easier for help from here quick..

thanks
kk
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replied June 3rd, 2009
can you tell me whee to find the "Ladt but" thing??????
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replied July 2nd, 2009
Please Help. :/
Uh, i'm in like the same perdicament as everyone here. i am 16 years old, and lost my virginity when i was 14. i know it sounds bad.. but i've had sex with 3 people, and the one i'm in a serious relationship now. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half now, and he used to be able to get me off, but now for some reason, i never get off unless he eats me out. It kinda makes me feel so bad because he's really good, so it always makes me think what is wrong with me.
Looking at what all of these other people have said makes me feel better, but i still wish i could get off during intercourse, because he thinks he sucks because of it. :/ We have tried like every position, and no doubt every one of them feels great; i just can't seem to get off. It probably doesn't help that i have HPV. but i don't think that would affect me not getting off. Please someone, i know you all of you have given a ton of advice, but if anyone has more, that would be a great help, one thing i have heard though was you possibly might not get off until you are older. oh, and to the person who said have i or havn't i lost my virginty, you also may have popped your cherry while you were on your period using tampons and not even noticed. Thanks for people who help, and i also hope i've also semi helped.
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replied July 3rd, 2009
how would a girl know she's reaching climax? cause everytime i finger and oral my gf, after a while she tells me she needs to pee. can she pee while excited?
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replied July 26th, 2009
Im so glad that im not the only one who has this problem i dont know what to do either Sad
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replied September 25th, 2009
I have the same damn problem as well....I've gotten so close to having an orgasm but I can't seem to get over that climax....any ideas, I need help. I used to use a vibrator all the time and feel weird using one during sex (he's very self-conscience) but I don't know what else to do....I really would love to have a one where I don't have to use that....I think I'm not as sensitive anymore since I've used it
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replied September 25th, 2009
I have the same damn problem as well....I've gotten so close to having an orgasm but I can't seem to get over that climax....any ideas, I need help. I used to use a vibrator all the time and feel weird using one during sex (he's very self-conscience) but I don't know what else to do....I really would love to have a one where I don't have to use that....I think I'm not as sensitive anymore since I've used it
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replied October 29th, 2009
I can't climax no matter what I do or he does. But I am so attracted to him
what is the problem
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replied November 1st, 2009
hmmm...have u tried u or him touching/rubbing ur clit while hes inside u? i know that i liked wen with the head of his penis that was wet with my vaginal lubrication hed rub it on my clit and id orgasm just from that : ) hope i helped.
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