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I used t be able to reach ogasm but i cnt anymore and im really in to this boy iv been seeing and i think its annoying him at the fact i cnt have an orgasm! He seems to think that its his problem but ts mynee! im soooo unhappy at the moment because of this

i can't orgasm...my boyfriend wanted me to do it soo bad...i faked it once or twice and now i don't feel like i have to do it anymore. i know its a lie and i shouldn't have done it, but hes satisfied because he "knows" he can get me off and he doesn't feel like he has to anymore so even tho its still frustrating for me..its a LOT better when the pressure is off on his end and maybe someday ill actually be able to do it

i can't orgasm...my boyfriend wanted me to do it soo bad...i faked it once or twice and now i don't feel like i have to do it anymore. i know its a lie and i shouldn't have done it, but hes satisfied because he "knows" he can get me off and he doesn't feel like he has to anymore so even tho its still frustrating for me..its a LOT better when the pressure is off on his end and maybe someday ill actually be able to do it

Not having an orgasm is completly normal. If a person doesn't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. In fact, worrying about reaching an orgasm or being nervous is quite likely to make it hard for a person to relax enough to have one.

Cat, you don't even know about masturbation, orgasm, why you're so horny as a teen, or why you like sticking your finger in your vagina. Unless you're a troll, I'd stop talking about things you have no experience with. You've never even HAD an orgasm from what I've read.

troll troll troll

ahhh go away

what in the world is a troll???

A troll is a type of person who goes to forums just to stir up trouble and drama.

Cat may be a troll but what she said is true. She probably got it from a website though. So, troll troll troll haha.

ip check?

lol you have a name for those people?

Apparently so. Also, I found out she did get it from a website! avert.org I understand she's trying to help, but she needs experience for that.

ivy, do you have something to share with the rest of us?

psst... i'm on to you...

lol

bridget why cant all this drama and these fakes come over to the womens chat forum so i can snoop on thier ips!

try to use oral sex sure you will be happy

What were you doing before that caused orgasm, and what are you doing differently now? Are you nervous? Stressed? Uncomfortable with him?

i had the same problem..i had many years relationship and no orgasm..and he was good in bed..i think it was because i was not feeling much sexual attraction to him..anyway when i changed bf the difference was huge..i loved sex and he really makes me come many times! i love when he sucks my clitoris...try it..and yes..he adores watching me masturbating..

I have been reading all this about orgasms and I have had a similar concern. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and I feel like our sex life is lacking in a way. Everything else is amazing in our relationship but this worries me.
I can't orgasm with him at all. Like I feel like when I might be getting to that point I get a weird pressure pain, its hard to explain, I almost have to stop and then it causes me to get all dried up down there....anyone ever have soemthing similar?
Like at the times when I feel like I am feeling really good and getting like the shakes the next step, I would think would be orgasm but it doesnt happen...or is that it? I know this might sound crazy....any suggestions?

I have been reading all this about orgasms and I have had a similar concern. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and I feel like our sex life is lacking in a way. Everything else is amazing in our relationship but this worries me.
I can't orgasm with him at all. Like I feel like when I might be getting to that point I get a weird pressure pain, its hard to explain, I almost have to stop and then it causes me to get all dried up down there....anyone ever have soemthing similar?
Like at the times when I feel like I am feeling really good and getting like the shakes the next step, I would think would be orgasm but it doesnt happen...or is that it? I know this might sound crazy....any suggestions?

There are Sentia pills for women which help women to be able to feel orgasms. I tried this supplement a year ago and the result was I started to have orgasms. It increases libido.