Im a Man And I Can't Orgasm During Sex!! Posted: 07-28-04 10:12am
I am having a real problem, I cant orgasm
during sex. This seems like a dream come
true for all girls, but really it isn't.
I’ve had problems with ex-partners getting
very annoyed or sore because I cant
orgasm. I have no problem with foreplay
and quite often ejaculate during this when
with a girl. However I hate going on top
because I get no feeling and reaching a
climax is almost nil. I find it very
frustrating for my partners and myself; I
have even faked my orgasm on several
occasions!!
I have searched the internet for advice
but there seems to be none. I also suffer
from cold testicles, do you think that
this may have something to do with the
problem? I know the expression;
"numb-nuts!" but I really have them! I
don’t know if this is related or not. I
have no problems achieving orgasm on my
own, just would like to do this inside my
partner.
Please give me some help or advice.
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Sc0pE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 8 Location: N.Ireland
Posted: 08-20-04 14:04pm
Hey you say you cant 'orgasm' meaning you
get no feeling when you ejaculate or just
dont ejaculate at all ? I myself dont get
an orgasm or any feeling of pleasure but
ejaculate...
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drexl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004 Posts: 37 Location: canada
Posted: 12-10-04 01:52am
Mabey you should try inserting your penis
into your girlfriends anus mabey you just
need to feel tighter pressure on your
penis, for the guy who does ejaculate but
feels no orgasm this could be a back
problem, when certain nerves are pinched
in the lower back the energy i'll refer to
it as chi because how could a billion
chinese people be wrong - does not flow
properly through your spine so the energy
needed to be built up in your body in
preparation for discharge is not happening
therefore no complete discharge if you
were circumsized this can also contribute
to a loss of sensation because there is a
certain amount of electrical static which
is accumulated in the tip from friction of
the skin layers to begin the charge
through the spinal fluids. I've had only
one orgasm in the last ten years and it
was after a chiroractor put me on a
machine which bent me back and fourth on a
machine which loostened my lower back.
Niacin vitamin b12 can help in very small
doses along with some yoga.
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mikef
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004 Posts: 23 Location: United States-Idaho
Posted: 12-26-04 15:00pm
You could try herbal supplemens that
increase sexual drive. I recommend zupro.
After taking it I experience very
powerful orgasms.
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Arclight
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Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Sacramento, Ca, USA
Reaching An Orgasm Posted: 01-06-05 01:13am
How do you keep from infecting yourself if
you dont have an orgasm/ejaculation.
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boobtease
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Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 5
Well Maybe I Can Help Posted: 01-06-05 19:42pm
My fiance had mentioned something about
that when we first got together he said I
would get too wet and so he couldn't feel
anything and it was hard to orgasm but
since then we have been together for 3
years and he hasn't happened for a long
time he is used to my wetness maybe is
your women getting really wet? Also what
about your circulation? Do you take any
medications? These are things to keep in
mind also my fiance says when he get too
hot if we dont open a window it makes it
hard for him to orgasm maybe you need a
little fresh air try having sex outside or
in the laundry mat you may just need a
vaction stress can make things happen
maybe talk to a doctor or a friend you can
trust it may be something as simple as
your nerves being bad or stress hopefully
not you health but just dont be afraid to
ask and get it checked out by a
professional since you have no problem
orgasming yourself it sounds like you are
fine I would maybe just ask you woman to
jack you off a little untill you get close
and then slowly slip back inside her and
you are sure to orgasm inside her if all
else fails visit my website. And check
some pics and video take care... Http://www.Boobtease.Com
sincerly,
sassy
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amckay
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2005 Posts: 3
Posted: 03-16-05 19:25pm
I've actually got this problem myself. I
assume it's more of a mental issue as
masterbations never a problem. I assume
it's just a matter of relaxing and also
just needing more friction. But usually I
just focus on making my partner climax the
whole time rather than ever worrying about
myself. It'd be interesting to hear if
anyone has any major solutions to this. I
assume like I said it's more of a mental
thing and once you finally do start to get
over it it'll all become quite easy and
the problem will go away. But like I
said, i'm also in the same boat which only
lately i've really been starting to look
into ways to get over this as obviously
most of my partners think it's something
to do with them and of course i'd like to
actually start enjoying it more ; )
how do you keep from infecting yourself if
you dont have an orgasm/ejaculation.
I don't understand that question at
all....Is it just me?
It could very well be a mental thing. If
you can orgasm yourself and during
foreplay then it is very likely a mental
reason causing you to not orgasm during
actual intercourse. Anal sex is not a
solution because even if you can orgasm
that way that would mean you have to have
anal sex everytime you want to orgasm, so
real natural sex still wouldn't give you
the pleasure that it should.
Talk to your doctor, a friend who
experiences similar problems or seek
counseling. But, definately go to your
doc to rule out any actual medical
problem.
Are you comfortable with your partner?
Love and understanding makes all of the
difference in the world. Good luck to
you both.
