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liberation

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Im a Man And I Can't Orgasm During Sex!!
Posted: 07-28-04 10:12am

I am having a real problem, I cant orgasm during sex. This seems like a dream come true for all girls, but really it isn't. I’ve had problems with ex-partners getting very annoyed or sore because I cant orgasm. I have no problem with foreplay and quite often ejaculate during this when with a girl. However I hate going on top because I get no feeling and reaching a climax is almost nil. I find it very frustrating for my partners and myself; I have even faked my orgasm on several occasions!!

I have searched the internet for advice but there seems to be none. I also suffer from cold testicles, do you think that this may have something to do with the problem? I know the expression; "numb-nuts!" but I really have them! I don’t know if this is related or not. I have no problems achieving orgasm on my own, just would like to do this inside my partner.

Please give me some help or advice.
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Sc0pE

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Posted: 08-20-04 14:04pm

Hey you say you cant 'orgasm' meaning you get no feeling when you ejaculate or just dont ejaculate at all ? I myself dont get an orgasm or any feeling of pleasure but ejaculate...
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drexl

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Posted: 12-10-04 01:52am

Mabey you should try inserting your penis into your girlfriends anus mabey you just need to feel tighter pressure on your penis, for the guy who does ejaculate but feels no orgasm this could be a back problem, when certain nerves are pinched in the lower back the energy i'll refer to it as chi because how could a billion chinese people be wrong - does not flow properly through your spine so the energy needed to be built up in your body in preparation for discharge is not happening therefore no complete discharge if you were circumsized this can also contribute to a loss of sensation because there is a certain amount of electrical static which is accumulated in the tip from friction of the skin layers to begin the charge through the spinal fluids. I've had only one orgasm in the last ten years and it was after a chiroractor put me on a machine which bent me back and fourth on a machine which loostened my lower back. Niacin vitamin b12 can help in very small doses along with some yoga.
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mikef

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Posted: 12-26-04 15:00pm

You could try herbal supplemens that increase sexual drive. I recommend zupro. After taking it I experience very powerful orgasms.
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Arclight

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Reaching An Orgasm
Posted: 01-06-05 01:13am

How do you keep from infecting yourself if you dont have an orgasm/ejaculation.
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boobtease

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Well Maybe I Can Help
Posted: 01-06-05 19:42pm

My fiance had mentioned something about that when we first got together he said I would get too wet and so he couldn't feel anything and it was hard to orgasm but since then we have been together for 3 years and he hasn't happened for a long time he is used to my wetness maybe is your women getting really wet? Also what about your circulation? Do you take any medications? These are things to keep in mind also my fiance says when he get too hot if we dont open a window it makes it hard for him to orgasm maybe you need a little fresh air try having sex outside or in the laundry mat you may just need a vaction stress can make things happen

maybe talk to a doctor or a friend you can trust it may be something as simple as your nerves being bad or stress hopefully not you health but just dont be afraid to ask and get it checked out by a professional since you have no problem orgasming yourself it sounds like you are fine I would maybe just ask you woman to jack you off a little untill you get close and then slowly slip back inside her and you are sure to orgasm inside her if all else fails visit my website. And check some pics and video take care... Http://www.Boobtease.Com

sincerly,
sassy
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amckay

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Posted: 03-16-05 19:25pm

I've actually got this problem myself. I assume it's more of a mental issue as masterbations never a problem. I assume it's just a matter of relaxing and also just needing more friction. But usually I just focus on making my partner climax the whole time rather than ever worrying about myself. It'd be interesting to hear if anyone has any major solutions to this. I assume like I said it's more of a mental thing and once you finally do start to get over it it'll all become quite easy and the problem will go away. But like I said, i'm also in the same boat which only lately i've really been starting to look into ways to get over this as obviously most of my partners think it's something to do with them and of course i'd like to actually start enjoying it more ; )
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2ferano

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Posted: 03-16-05 19:41pm

Reaching an orgasm
posted: 01-06-05 11:13am

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how do you keep from infecting yourself if you dont have an orgasm/ejaculation.

I don't understand that question at all....Is it just me?

It could very well be a mental thing. If you can orgasm yourself and during foreplay then it is very likely a mental reason causing you to not orgasm during actual intercourse. Anal sex is not a solution because even if you can orgasm that way that would mean you have to have anal sex everytime you want to orgasm, so real natural sex still wouldn't give you the pleasure that it should.
Talk to your doctor, a friend who experiences similar problems or seek counseling. But, definately go to your doc to rule out any actual medical problem.
Are you comfortable with your partner? Love and understanding makes all of the difference in the world. Good luck to you both.
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