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Q: Please Help..im a Teen.
asked by: p1r4t3 on July 27th, 2004
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Hi, im very worried.. Its been already 8 days since i've had a "sexual" intercourse with my boyfriend.
Well, frankly speaking,i didn't want to lose my virginity, im still 15. I told my boyfriend that i'll lose my virginity only after marriage. Then we agreed to have anal sex.
After getting home, 3 hours later, while taking a bath, ive noticed a white thing near my vagina. I removed it but I really have lots of things going in my mind.
Im still a virgin and I want to get a clear answer. Can I get pregnant?
If yes, please tell me what should I do.
Please help me,i need your advices.
Thank you.
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cw2004
replied on July 27th, 2004
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White Thing?
Was the white thing hard? Or mushy? If it was mushy it may just be discharge. Or it could be your boyfriend's semen. Did he ejaculate near your vagina area? If so, don't panic. Wait until you get your period. If it doesn't come, maybe you need to take a preg test.
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p1r4t3
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Thank you very much for replying. According to my calendar, I will get my period around the 3rd of august.If I dont get my peroid, wat should I do?
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hm_03
replied on July 28th, 2004
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If you don't get your period then take an hpt test. You should know that sometimes too much stress and worry can cause you period to delay. Just relax and wait to see what happens. Ask your boyfriend if he ejaculated inside you or something. It may not be anything bad but just make sure. Good luck

maddy~
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JennyH
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Don't Think So
I doubt you are pregnant. You do realize that sex is sex no matter how you have it. The anus should be an exit only.....Think about it. You are only 15 years old. If you want to stay a virgin, don't let your boyfriend talk you into something you don't want to do. If he can't respect your decision then he really doesn't respect you. He won't die if he doesn't have sex, really he won't. No guy has ever died because he didn't get to have sex when he wanted it! One last thing, by waiting until you're married to have sex, you will never have any regrets. Trust me, I know. I had sex for the first time when I was 14. I got pregnant at 16 and I had an abortion. You have no idea of the shame and regret that have followed that decision and that was 18 years ago. God is good and he forgives. Don't let your peers talk you into doing something you don't think is right. Jenny
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p1r4t3
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Boyfriend Confirmation
Yes, my boyfriend told me that he ejaculated.
Im very afraid.
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hm_03
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Just wait to see if you get your period you never know the chances. Good luck. Keep us posted.
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the one
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Um, the first thing you might wanna do is get mad at your boyfriend. Sex is sex either way, and in my opinion, it's worse in the butt. Anal sex isn't even a nice thing to do, it's not like making ass love or anything...He's just getting off using your body. You should have asked him if he didn't mind you sticking a cucumber up his ass, then having him lick it, assuming you'll evenually give him oral sex.

I assume you guys weren't using a condom so uhh, you need to ask him where he ejaculated... If it was in you, then you definately can't get pregnant if none came out, because there's nothing leading to the egg. That's a one way road out. If some came out and seeped into your vagina, then you *might* have a problem. But you see, hypothetically, if he ejaculated 100% into your vagina, you'd have an 8% chance of getting pregnant. Since you're not even sure, and this is assuming he didn't ejaculate on your vagina at all, you're looking at a very small chance.

Ask him where he ejaculated. It's too late for you to take an emergency contraceptive, so whatever you find out, stay calm and know your chances are very slim, and wait for your period.
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p1r4t3
replied on July 28th, 2004
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Ok. I'll wait till monday and let you know. I dont know where to get advices. Thank you all very much.
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p1r4t3
replied on July 29th, 2004
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Hi friends. I got my period today in the afternoon. Its 2-3 days earlier.
Hm_03 said that stress may cause period to delay but mine came earlier. Is it ok and is it a good sign?
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Cassy
replied on July 29th, 2004
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If your period is like a normal period, it's like any that you've had before then you're fine. If your period is extremely light or stops after 2 days or something then you may want to take an hpt.
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p1r4t3
replied on August 2nd, 2004
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Hello everybody, like ive said, i'll be giving some feedback today.
Well,since thursday ive been having my period, so I guess there is no problem. Thanks to all of you for giving me advices when I badly needed them.
Thank you
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