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Q: Ppl Like This Dont Need Babies..

asked by: rissalee21 on July 25th, 2004

Experienced User

Okay I have a friend who is 16 and she has an 8mth baby girl. Her name is jackie and her daughters name is makayla. Well jackie and her boyfriend ronnie have been together forever! And ther good parents when they want to be. They both are addicted really bad to crack and when they go on there bindges they leave the baby with just anyone. I mean I have kept her before for almost 6 days without hearing from them. But when there on there drugs and happy they will take her an be the best parents. I mean almost all the baby clothes for drugs. They actually are good parents when they want to be. Well jackie smoked crack while she was with pregnant with makayale and the baby was fine! Surprsinlg. Now jackie is pregant with another baby..And she is still smoking it. I told her and we kind of got into an argument about it beacsue I said jsut beacsue makayla is okay doesnt mean this baby will be. I told her she could go to jail fora long time thats like killing a baby! And I said if she did decide to keep the baby she needed to stop smoking that crap and shape up nda be a mother. And she got really mad I didnt want to be mean but its true no darn baby deserves that! And I said and if you cant do that then give the baby a life it needs and put it up for adoption to somebody who would care and love that baby unconditionally. And she got all bent outta shape saying I was telling her shes a bad mom..I mean I didnt I just was blunt and said what she needed to do adn gavemy opnion. Thats a babies life you kno? Well sry guys just needed to vent and wanted sum advice!

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marisa

Replies(11)

smith8500

replied on July 25th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Sick people in this world! I wish she wasn't even able to have kids! Evil or Very Mad

lee25

replied on July 25th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Being that she is on drugs she kind of still in denial. Druggys are usually offened very quikely. It's sad because the baby is innocent in all of this, and your right there are people who would take very good care of the baby. But until she really doesn't open up her eyes and want to do something for her self, there's nothing that you could basically do. Thay have to admit it to themselves that there is a a problem and ask for help themselves. I wish your friend luck in realizing what she is doing.

Brenda

kitty_55

replied on July 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Omg I can't belive that!! She is so stupid and selfish for doing that to her baby! Err people like that piss me off so doing it much!! Twisted Evil

2ferano

replied on July 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

That makes me so freakin mad. I hate people like that. Don't have kids if you don't want them, ya know. And you can be the best parent in the whole world, but if you are only a part-time parent it doesn't mean squat.
Sad things is they probably won't learn and if they do, it will probably be the hard way.
Like my old roomate who did that crap. Him and his girlfriend found dead (o.D'ed) and both kids were in the house with them. Freakin ignorant. And they were also great people! Wonderful people. But, when you do drugs like that you are choosing to be irresponsible and are taking the risk of dying. Where would their kids be then? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

linuxChique

replied on July 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Oh my gosh! That is terrible!

sparklypixie12

replied on July 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

no namers like those don't deserve kids or even a life for that matter Evil or Very Mad

I don't honestly know how you can be friends with someone like that.
Her baby could be born a crack addict & have to go through months of treatment or even die from it.This makes me so mad Evil or Very Mad

sweetsuzi

replied on July 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Selfish is the word. She obviously has no respect for her friends, herself or her children. Her and him are suited to one another. Stupid idiots... I feel so sorry for their babies.

newlife

replied on July 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Okay well, if you know about this it is kind of your job as a human being to do something about it. I mean the government isn't always the best way to go, but in this case you have to call social services. I mean what if the 8 month old, one day found some crack and decided to taste it. I hate to say it that would kill her, and then your friend would be going to jail on counts of, contributing to the deliquence (sp?) of a juvenile, child endangerment, drug charges, and if god forbid the baby did pass, possibly homicide or manslaughter.

So I know it may be hard to do, but sit down and talk to her, try to find some programs that can help, and if she doesn't cooperate right now call the police or social services.

sparklypixie12

replied on July 26th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

You are so right-i never thought of that but this girl is putting her child at risk & she's not looking after her properly-perhaps her child would be better off being looked after by someone who would care for her. A little girl (think she was about 7- Cool

died here a while back because her mom had left some e's stuffed in a teddy bear & the girl died from taking some Sad

sweetsuzi

replied on July 26th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

As much as I hate seeing kids going into the care system, I think someone needs to look out for the little one. She could quite easily get her hands on the sh*t, and the people round about her will feel guilty for not doing something sooner . If this girl can't stop using drugs for her childrens sake then she has a problem and needs help fast. You tried to tell her and she was having none of it.

JenniferN

replied on July 26th, 2004

Experienced User

I would be calling cps... No doubt about it.

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