I would reason w/ her tell her how hard it is wat she waould have to give up andso on yes I would be upset if she got preg that young but I would be supportive!

Well we all know what we were/are like at 14. . I was too busy with my ponies to think about boys at that age. But if it was me I would be angry, for I would still want her to grow up a little bit more. But you cant control anyone once they have a mind of their own, so I would try and support her the best I could.

I'd tell her it'll be hard as hell to find a reasonable father for a baby and that despite the fact its gonna be hard physically, mentally and financially, it would just be weird. Especially considering the age difference isn't that much. I mean..My mother is 11 years older than my father. *blink* I forgot where I was going with this, but just know it was a very good point.

Oh yeah! Back to the father issue. First off, if the father is over 18, he aint gonna own up to it. And if the father is around 14 as well, he's not gonna be able to support it even if he did have a job. O.O idunno, I just know its hard for me and i'm 20 o.O

Id be upset, and scared, and i'd let her know that. I dont think physical abuse or repramanding is right in any situation. I would deff reason with her. Tell your friend she has a lot of maturing to do!

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gaby

Yeah, I of course would be upset to if my daughter got pregnant. But theres no way in hell I would bring her down, tell her shes an embarassment, and "hit her in the head with a stick" you know?

Im so thankful I have the mom I do, and I realized that talking with this chick.

Shes not my friend, I don't even know the girl. Shes on a different board, on a different site. I've told her over and over she needed to grow up because hitting a girl over the head with a stick for getting pregnant is irrational. But she seems to think im the one who is immature. Whatever. I just let people like that go off in their own little crazy worlds.

What site is it?

Its on bolt.Com. Its not a pregnancy site, its just one big site for people to go meet people and hang out.

I would call a local planned parenting center, and see if you can schedule a time for her to come in and talk to some one.. A nurse or something about the issues of teen pregnancy. Also maybe call a local teen mother shelter and see if you can take her for a visit. Its a serious issue... I would litterally die if my 14 year old daughter did something to that nature

Well I first would tell her how hard it is. And I think it would be a little bit easier seeing im only 16 and im pregnant I would tell her what I went through. But if she did end up getting pregnant I would support her..I woudlnt be mad I would be dissapointed.

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marisa

Of course I would not beat her because that would just cause her to get all crazy and maybe she would want to get pregnant even more because a lot of girls feel neglected and want something to love. They don't realize the consequence.
I would talk to her and let her know that it is not easy being a mommy. Maybe taking her somewhere so that she can see for herself or have her babysit would give her a sense of idea as to what she will have to deal with everyday of her life. Her social life would change. Everything would be different.

Well if my 14 yr old was trying to get pregnant and didnt succeed yet, man I would ground her til she was 35. I wouldnt beat her with a stick on the head or whatever, id get my belt and smack her out of the clouds. In no way am I gonna try to reason with a 14yr old as an adult. And if her daddy dont scare her, I sure will. And if that dont work, then off to bootcamp she goes. I am not havin it in my house. Im gonna make sure I teach my kids morals and values and teach her to be like linux and wait til shes married. Which reminds me I was talking to my neice and I was like never get pregnant!! And she was like no way im never getting pregnant! And I said good not til your married! And she says no im not getting married either!! And I said even better! Otherwise id have to beat some boys up!!! Shes only 7 lol, but she has the mentality of an 11 yr old. Like you can carry grown up conversations with her lol. So as long as she knows!!! Then she can avoid a beating! Hehe

I am a 14 year old turning 15 july 30th and am pregnant.Im now 26 weeks .And for me I realized its very hard just being pregnant and I no its going to be even harder when my baby is born .I would tell her how hard it will be and if she got preggo I would not be mad at her but her b/f and I would be very upset but be there for her like my parents are rite now for me .I would support her as best I can ..Well thats wut I would do even no im only 14 and going to be a mother my self .I would never consider hitting her over the head with a stick ...

O ya I just remembered wut I was going to say.......Before I got pregnant I didnt have any one talk to me about that kind of stuff and when I did it was to late .I was already pregnant and I dont beleive in abortions so try talk to her