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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004
Posts: 599
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What's Going On Chanda...
Posted: 07-23-04 14:41pm
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I was just wondering how you have been
lately. Is there anything new with the
situation with angela and blade? Sorry
if you've already updated, and I haven't
seen, or if you don't want to talk about
it, thats fine too!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-23-04 15:18pm
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Thank you so much for asking. You are
like the only person who did! Thanks
hun!
Um, not much new is going on. Angela was
ordered to go to re-hab from 8 a.M. To 3
p.M. Every day for like I dunno how long.
She's still awaiting court to see what
exactly is her punishment. But it's
looking like 5-30 years. Who really know.
My brother is sticking by her side....
For now. As for blade. My little man
goes to 3 houses a day to be babysat.
See, his dad works from 7 a.M to about 6
p.M. So from 7-12 blade is at one house
then from 12-3 blade is at another womans
house and from 3-6 blade is with his
nanny. My poor little man is just going
from house to house and I hate that.
Angela isn't getting any visitation right
now for either of her kids pending the
court decisions. On the 29th of this
month she goes to court for custody of
blade, which she will not get because she
hasn't even been sentenced yet for her
crime. Blades daddy really dosent' want
blade but he isn't willing to give him
back to angela. So...... The virdict.
Possibly giving him to me. But I told
angela and blades daddy, I will take blade
and they both can see him, but I want him
as mine if I am taking him. I want both
of them to sign all their rights to me.
And I want child support from both
parents. None of this could happen until
I turn 18 inb september anyway, but I am
willing to do it and my parents support me
100% because I already pretty much am a
mother to blade anyway.... I haven't seen
him since..... Ummmmm, june I think it
was........ I miss him so much, but I am
just trying to wait it out and see what
happens.... As for angela, I don't give a
damn what happens to her. She is the
reason my little boy is in strangers
houses all day. Because she couldn't act
right. At least knowing that he is with
his daddy makes me comfortable because I
know he's being cared for. I just, I feel
so bad cuz he's forced to go from place to
place. My poor baby.  ok,
let me stop before I get too emotional.
Thank you so much for asking! Thank you.
I really appreciate it...
Always,
chanda
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:22pm
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Hey if you would come in yahoo once in a
while I would have asked you too!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-23-04 15:22pm
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I am always in yahoo. I am always
invisible and I never know when you are
on! 
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MegEve
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2003
Posts: 353
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:24pm
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Oh, chanda, if you get custody of blade,
that would be wonderful! It makes me so
sad that he has to go through all of this,
when all he needs is you! Good luck with
everything and keep us updated.
Love,
megan
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:24pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-06-04 12:01pm; edited 1 time in total
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004
Posts: 599
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:32pm
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I think thats so great that you would be
willing to take care of blade. Lots of
responsibility would come with that, but
from what I know of you im know that you
can do it, and would be very good at doing
it. I hope that they do agree to sign
over their rights as parents to you. I
think it would be in the best interest of
blade too. He knows you guys as his
family does he not? And to be taken away
from that, must be really hard on the
little guy. I hope everyting works out
for you!!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-23-04 15:36pm
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Thanks so much everyone. I told my mom.
I would be willing today to give up
everything for my little man.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:41pm
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That would be so wonderful! Sorry, I
didn't ask about it. I haven't been on
too much lately. (well, at least not for
very long  )
take care girls!
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-23-04 15:53pm
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Aww chanda that's sweet! It hink you
would be perfect for becoming blade's
guardian. Just as long as you know
everything you are getting into. (im sure
you do) I hope all goes well for you!
Although if you become his legal guardian
I don't think you can get child support.
I'm not too sure though. But
anywho....Good luck!
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 07-23-04 16:06pm
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Awwwww chanda, sometimes ur just too
sweet!!!! That is the most unselfish,
happiest thing ive ever heard of! That
would be so awesome if u became the sole
parent of blade!!!! U love him as much as
a real mom would love their child! I hope
u get custody and I hope evrything works
out! Awww I cant believe how sweet u
are!!!!
Shauna
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-23-04 16:13pm
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No chrissy. Not a legal order of child
support. (unless I could get that  )
just an agreement. You can see blade as
long as I get my child support and I am
mom. They would have no rights, anymore,
so they can't exactly fight to get
visitaion. I mean, they always could,
but it wouldn't be like that.
Last edited by smith8500 on 07-23-04 16:17pm; edited 2 times in total
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-23-04 16:16pm
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Ook. Sorry im a little slow and confused.
Lol. Well I hope it all works out for
ya! You deserve it!
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-23-04 20:52pm
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 07-23-04 21:41pm
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Wow thats awesome of you chanda!! Youre a
great person for even thinking/offering!
<3
gaby
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 07-24-04 09:47am
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Chanda-your so lovely to do that for
blade.I think you'd be a fab mom to him.Go
for it & I hope you get it
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-24-04 12:21pm
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Awe. Thanks hun.
Love,
chanda
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