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Q: What's Going On Chanda...
asked by: cherry_pie on July 23rd, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
I was just wondering how you have been lately. Is there anything new with the situation with angela and blade? Sorry if you've already updated, and I haven't seen, or if you don't want to talk about it, thats fine too!
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smith8500
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey
Thank you so much for asking. You are like the only person who did! Thanks hun!

Um, not much new is going on. Angela was ordered to go to re-hab from 8 a.M. To 3 p.M. Every day for like I dunno how long. She's still awaiting court to see what exactly is her punishment. But it's looking like 5-30 years. Who really know. My brother is sticking by her side.... For now. As for blade. My little man goes to 3 houses a day to be babysat. See, his dad works from 7 a.M to about 6 p.M. So from 7-12 blade is at one house then from 12-3 blade is at another womans house and from 3-6 blade is with his nanny. My poor little man is just going from house to house and I hate that. Angela isn't getting any visitation right now for either of her kids pending the court decisions. On the 29th of this month she goes to court for custody of blade, which she will not get because she hasn't even been sentenced yet for her crime. Blades daddy really dosent' want blade but he isn't willing to give him back to angela. So...... The virdict. Possibly giving him to me. But I told angela and blades daddy, I will take blade and they both can see him, but I want him as mine if I am taking him. I want both of them to sign all their rights to me. And I want child support from both parents. None of this could happen until I turn 18 inb september anyway, but I am willing to do it and my parents support me 100% because I already pretty much am a mother to blade anyway.... I haven't seen him since..... Ummmmm, june I think it was........ I miss him so much, but I am just trying to wait it out and see what happens.... As for angela, I don't give a damn what happens to her. She is the reason my little boy is in strangers houses all day. Because she couldn't act right. At least knowing that he is with his daddy makes me comfortable because I know he's being cared for. I just, I feel so bad cuz he's forced to go from place to place. My poor baby. Crying or Very sad ok, let me stop before I get too emotional.
Thank you so much for asking! Thank you. I really appreciate it...
Always,
chanda
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nikki_caro
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey if you would come in yahoo once in a while I would have asked you too!
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smith8500
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey
I am always in yahoo. I am always invisible and I never know when you are on! Wink
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MegEve
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Oh, chanda, if you get custody of blade, that would be wonderful! It makes me so sad that he has to go through all of this, when all he needs is you! Good luck with everything and keep us updated.

Love,
megan
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insurancegirl
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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cherry_pie
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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I think thats so great that you would be willing to take care of blade. Lots of responsibility would come with that, but from what I know of you im know that you can do it, and would be very good at doing it. I hope that they do agree to sign over their rights as parents to you. I think it would be in the best interest of blade too. He knows you guys as his family does he not? And to be taken away from that, must be really hard on the little guy. I hope everyting works out for you!!
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smith8500
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey
Thanks so much everyone. I told my mom. I would be willing today to give up everything for my little man.
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2ferano
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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That would be so wonderful! Sorry, I didn't ask about it. I haven't been on too much lately. (well, at least not for very long Laughing )
take care girls!
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KissyBai912
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Aww chanda that's sweet! It hink you would be perfect for becoming blade's guardian. Just as long as you know everything you are getting into. (im sure you do) I hope all goes well for you! Although if you become his legal guardian I don't think you can get child support. I'm not too sure though. But anywho....Good luck!
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babyrae
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Awwwww chanda, sometimes ur just too sweet!!!! That is the most unselfish, happiest thing ive ever heard of! That would be so awesome if u became the sole parent of blade!!!! U love him as much as a real mom would love their child! I hope u get custody and I hope evrything works out! Awww I cant believe how sweet u are!!!!

Shauna
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smith8500
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey
No chrissy. Not a legal order of child support. (unless I could get that Question ) just an agreement. You can see blade as long as I get my child support and I am mom. They would have no rights, anymore, so they can't exactly fight to get visitaion. I mean, they always could, but it wouldn't be like that.
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KissyBai912
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Ook. Sorry im a little slow and confused. Lol. Well I hope it all works out for ya! You deserve it!
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smith8500
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Hey
Thanks. :d
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bellax0x
replied on July 23rd, 2004
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Wow thats awesome of you chanda!! Youre a great person for even thinking/offering!

<3
gaby
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sparklypixie12
replied on July 24th, 2004
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Chanda-your so lovely to do that for blade.I think you'd be a fab mom to him.Go for it & I hope you get it
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smith8500
replied on July 24th, 2004
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Hey
Awe. Thanks hun.
Love,
chanda
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