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Q: Help Me Plz!!!!!! (ok I Fixed It a Bit Look @ It Now)

asked by: sweetangel on July 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

Hi everyone I have a problem can some help me plz!!!??

1st of all I am 15 in along term ( on and off) relationship he's 17
we have no kids kind of good 4 us bc we have been together for 3 yrs and a couple of months and in those three yrs i've cheated on him and he always brings it up. It's not like he has never cheated on me oh boy has he ever; last year a friend of mine told me she found a letter in a book 4rm him to another girl (we were in different schools) that told that girl he could not tell her he loved her bc it would be like telling me that he loved me. When I asked him he denied it until a couple of months ago well that pissed me off of course but I forgave him. After that whole incident we broke up and we both dated other people, me older guys him way younger girls Exclamation

this one guy and me had a really good relationship and till this day we still talk as 4riends and, last night he told me he loved me but I don't see him like that and I don't know what to do help!!!!!!!!!

Oh yea and he dated like I said. This one girl really went far and beyond, she said that she was pregnant 4rm him. I never knew until after we got back together. Well she said they never messed (can you tell me how she got "pregnant") well let me tell you what she said that happened, he fingered her so she was pregnant. Yea rite, I don't see how that happened can some one explain.

Well when I found out what she was telling people it pissed me off. I mean i'v never never no mater how many times i've cheated on him have I been near a another guy he was my 1st and only I wonder bout him he says that I was and that I still am.

Everyone always tells me to break up w/me boyfriend bc "i'm to pretty 4 him" and no I don't think I am, it actually makes me mad for people to say that. People also tell me that they don't really like the way he treats me (sometimes I don't). He's left me bruises yea I will admit that. No he didnt hit me never (i'm the 1 that has hit him i'll explain in a minute k), he grabbed my arm one time we broke up bc I was talking 2 the same guy from above and I got bruises (i really bruise easily). We ended up not being able to be seen together at school or they would press charges on us or so they said. It never happened I know bc a couple of weeks after that I forgave him and they did see us together and all they told us was they didnt want us 2gether but they never did nothing. Thank god!!!!!!!!!

I dont know what to do I really love him I think!?

Oh bout the time I hit him he called me a b@!?H and I don't like that @ all. Well he kept going and going so I hit him. Nothing horrible just a punch but we also got over it Embarassed

i just need someones advice I really dont like to ask my 4riends so plz help if its not to much trouble Laughing

thanx I really will appreciate anything

Last edited by sweetangel on July 23rd, 2004 02:06 PM; edited 4 times in total

Replies(14)

tweety12986

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

It kinda sounds like you two may just need alot of time apart if you two do want to stay together for the future, but if you dont think you want to stay with him you should just leave now before things get worse.

sweetsuzi

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Well firstly everyone makes mistakes and I have done my fair share of forgiving in the past. But the two of you really dont seem right and probably dont even make each other happy anymore. I know it's so weird you can't live with them and you cant live without them. When you start bringing the worst out of one another it's not good and it only gets worse.

Maybe your feelings and his feelings are genuine and you just need time and space to grow up and experiance going out with other guys and the same to him.
Ya know what they say "distance makes the heart grow fonder"

KissyBai912

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

where did you learn to speak so well??? Rolling Eyes

this post doesn't even make sense.....And what does it have to do with teen pregnancy. I read the part about some pregnant chick but it seems as though it has nothing to do with you so why worry??? Sorry to be so frank but I am just confused as to where the hell you were going witht his and what exactly are you wanting advice on? If its whether or not you and your "boyfriend" should be together I say yeah. You deserve each other. Especially when you would do something as horrible as cheat over and over and over. Once is a mistake, twice is understandable, but 3 time is ridiculous. And there is no such thing as being "too pretty" for someone. That is just downright conceited.

nikki_caro

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

If you two are both cheaters, your young and so is he. You both like to fight and break up with each other, then what exactly attracts you to each other? Why even bother? I think you 2 keep going back to each other when there is no one else. Obviously he likes being with other girls and same goes for you. Why dont you just end this nonsense once and for all, live your life on your own and let him live his. Before you do end up getting pregnant and then your stuck. Get out now and stop wasting your time on the cheater. Stop dating boys for a while and concetrate on school. Your 15 and youve been with this guy off an on since you were 12? Thats a bit young for me but whatever. Take a break from guys though. You have alot of time to date and go out.

sweetangel

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

Ok 1st of all im sorry I didnt know I couldnt ask for advice I thought thats what this was for so I guess ill just delete my post thanx a lot though and no I was not trying to sound conceited I was just saying what people say yea if you knew me u would know how mad it makes me for people to say that but if u decided to put in ur 2cents just to offend me u succeed thanx once again
kissybai912 not to be rude but u need to read what u write b4 u put it in dont offend people unless u'd like it done to ur self
Crying or Very sad

oh and about that chick it did have to do with me if u had read all of my post thanks Rolling Eyes

and for everyone else I really do thank ya for yalls advice thank you alot hopefully it will help me

KissyBai912

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I did read it. And what I read was ur boyfriend on the side from your "main" boyfriend had gotten another girl pregnant. You didn't stress much on this fact so it didn't seem that important. I did not make that post just to offend you. Just to tell you that you are wasting your time and so is he. And i'm sorry if I misunderstood but if you wrote in proper"english maybe it would be a little easier to understand. And I never said you were "trying" to sound conceited. I said you did. And just by repeating that I think you believe it. What relevance did it have towards your post anyways? You asked for advice and I gave you mine. If you don't like it don't read it.

sweetangel

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

All I said was that, that was what people said not what I thought
and no I dont belive it so like said dont offened people unless you would like it done to urself thats all and no I dont think I am maybe I have put it in words for u or what sorry if I sound rude but thats the same way u are towards me
like I said I didn't we couldnt ask for help on our questions and really didnt know this site belonged to u Laughing

babyrae

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I'm trying to post to help on this topic... But I cant understand anything ur saying????

Shauna

KissyBai912

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Haha I made that point shauna! Go back to school and learn to read and write. And you aren't offending me. So keep the insults coming if you wish. I just think it sadly pathetic that you can't accept opinions and criticism with grace like an adult should.

smith8500

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Lol. Another one of "these" posts! Lol

sweetangel

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

What part of it can you not understand

babyrae

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Uh, basically all of it. Im sorry but proper sentence structure does count when ur trying to state something.
I'd like to help u..... But I just cant understand...

Shauna

sweetangel

replied on July 22nd, 2004

Experienced User

Well then whatever bc I could make it a lot clearer if you would like.

But please just ask. I seriously hope u know what I mean.
Oh read the top I corrected it a bit. Hope it makes sense. Lol Laughing

sweetangel

replied on August 13th, 2004

Experienced User

Update

I dont know if anyones read this lately but just a little update.

We are doing good now thanx for everyones advice I appreciate it
once again thanx

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