Hey folks, I just found this forum, and it looks like a godsend. Its my first post but I hope to make many more!

I'm 24, 5"8 140 pounds, so i'm a little thin but lots of muscle. I'm fairly healthy, and the doc says I dont have diabetes (my dad is diabetic).

I smoke, drink very occasionally, love coffee (drink a lot of coffee).

The last 3-4 years I have had intermittent (sp?) problems with getting an erection. Sometimes it happens, and when it does its good for 5-6 days. Then sometimes, nothing. I'll give you an example of the last few days to give you an idea.

My gf and I had sex 4-5 days in a row. It was great, I made her cum, timed it with my orgasm, was great. No problems getting an erection. Then last night, I got a little excited, and came before she did. It killed the mood, I felt like I let her down, went to bed. Ok, no problem, but the next day, I was hooped. Could not get it up in the afternoon, nor the evening. When we are laying there and making out, it goes up, nice and hard. Then I think about it and think about it staying up, (like when i'm taking off my pants or finger banging her) and it goes down. Then it will not come up at all. I'll go down on her to make her cum (and hope that it will get erect) but it doesn't. Do you think i'm thinking about it too much?

I'm not really worried about my performance, just getting it up. When I first told her of my problem, she was totally understanding, and I got hard 5 mins within telling her and we had great sex. Its very strange.

Also, I am pretty stressed out with my room mates. Like they are driving me nuts, plus I just changed jobs so money was a little tight. Sometimes I feel like i'm not giving her what she wants, needs or deseverves. Could this be affecting my erections? I am moving into a new house in 2 months (my own house thank god) and do you think this may help?

Thank you so much for reading my ramblings, and I look forward to your responses.

-darren s