Im the same way as heather, my libido is completely gone. Kevin thinks its because of him, and that im not attracted to him anymore and so on and so forth. Its not like that at all... I just have no ~want~ for sex.. Sex just hurts me now, after he sticks it in so far, it hurts the inside of me and stings bad, and then when we do it missionary, its really uncomfortable... My knees pop real bad now when I go on top, it hurts bad, so thats out of the question, anything from behind hurts my stomach, like I get these sharp pains and some are bad enought they make me cry... And like spooning and crap is just, I dunno, I just dont like it. By the ninth month 59% of pregnant women have no want for sex. Its normal. Sex is just plain old uncomfortable for some of us. And then we're grumpy on top of that, so then when somebody bothers us for something that sucks bum(lol sorry) we are gonna get irritated and tell ya to leave us the hell alone

a pep talk probably wont get her libido back up, but maybe something very romantic would. Otherwise if its just sex for pleasure, or if she thinks it just sex for pleasure, she probably will just blow you off... Well thats at least whats going on with me and kevin, I cant say that this is how she feels, but im sure its how alot of pregnant women feel.