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Q: Why Does This Hurt?
asked by: daddys_gurl16 on September 25th, 2003
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Me and my boyfriend have bin 2gether for 11months and we have had sex and everything but, everytime he puts it in me, like right when he starts to, it hurts and I force him back out. Why does this hurt when he does this????Plus, I am on my period now but it has only bin 2 days and my period is starting to go aways so soon and it is scaring me, what does that mean? I dont know if I am pregnant or not whats happening???
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Suzy
replied on September 25th, 2003
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Has this always happened ? Or is it something that has just started happening lately ? It shouldn't be starting to hurt if you are pregnant, I mean it I doubt it would be a symptom of pregnancy although everyone is different. How long does your period usually last ? And are your periods usually regular ? If it hurting as he is just starting to push inside of you it sounds as though you might be anxious about something and tensing up, although there might be other contributing factors to. Is it red and inflammed around your vaginal area ? You may have thrush if thats the case, that can be painful having intercourse during an episode of thrush. If you can tell us anything else we may be able to help a bit more with some advice.

Take care...

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daddys_gurl16
replied on September 25th, 2003
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Hey
The pain has happened before when he has inserted. I dont think I would be pregnant cause I slept with him last saturday and when he tried it hurt the other times but now my period is starting to decrease and it usually lasts 5 to 6 days and it has only bin 2 and my periods are regular except for this one cause it is lighter now.There is no redness or any sign of other thing around my area.
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Suzy
replied on September 25th, 2003
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Do you get nervous or anxious when you are having sex with your boyfriend ? You maybe tensing up the muscles in your vagina to the point where it is painful for you. Some women, especially young girls having sex for the first time experience this, and it can go on for as long as the emotional side of things have been addressed and they feel completely comfortable with their partner.


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Darling
replied on September 25th, 2003
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Suzy is right, sometimes if you are nervous or tense it can definitely cause the muscle to tighten. Also do you have any reason to be pregnant? Have you had unprotected sex with him? Are you on the pill?
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daddys_gurl16
replied on September 27th, 2003
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I had unprotected sex, but I didnt know he had taken the condom off. I am not on the pill cause my parents dont know that I am sexually active.
But my period was a little light this time and ended a little early and I was really tired throughout the time
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