Hey hun...Well...Lol.....I have noticed for me it is when a guy is aggresive (not all women like this) but it seems the harder the better??? Have you tried placing your hand's on her bottom when doing this...Almost lifting her lower half in the air..Kinda hard to explain. Also do you use your tounge alot?? I have noticed that whe a guy uses all of his tounge as far as licikng or whatever that seems to work also...And have you tried different areas?? Her in a chair? Or ..If you wanna give it spice..Try different places in your house or where ever you are....Counter..Table...Noticing the surrounding's and what not may be a bigger turn on for her and you both.. I hope everything work's out ok...Hoped I helped some

Hey thanks. Yeah, ill defidently try your suggestions. I like the one where you said to place my hands on her bottom. That one might turn her on a lot. I know it will for me! Once again, thanks.

And yes, ill take all of the other stuff you said into action as well!! :d
if you think of anything else, please let me know!!

Have you tried to write the alphabet or your phone number with your tongue??Try some chocolate syrup or honey or whatever floats your boat.Long licks followed by little ones.Play around a little bit.It's not brain surgery after all,this is supposed to be fun!!!!!!Enjoy!Pattyv

I like light sucking of the clit. My husband does it to me and it always makes me go crazy. You have to switch back and forth between sucking and licking. Another thing that always makes me go wild is when we are in the middle of intercourse and he just stops and flips me over or lifts my hips off the bed and goes down for a little while and then he stops and puts himself right back in again. Oh my god! I think i'm going to bed now.

One thing I do have to add (because this always angers me off) is when you are going down on her or you are having intercourse and she is obviously enjoying what you are doing at that moment, don't stop! I mean, don't start doing something different. You have to pay attention to the "pleasure" sounds and the frustration sounds. It seems for me that everytime the guy finally does something right he will stop and do something different that does nothing for me. If you find her spot and do what she likes with it, orgasm will be easy!

If you want to try flavored syrups, (yes i'm being practical, but seriously here, no noe likes to deal with the blahs) get a flavored gel (sugar free - try the wet brand or something like it) made expressly for oral sex instead of chocolate syrup or honey, the sugars in them (hershey's or something) can make even a non yeast infection prone woman get the yeasties bad!


Also teasing the area (lips, clit, etc) it a very good precursor to any further stimulation.

Oh and what hotsafrick said about not stopping, very important.

Flavored gels,no sugar?Hmm,might have to go shopping!! patty

If you try the sucking thing make sure you dont do it to hard this may turn her off. Listen for her moans you will know when you are doing it the way she likes. All women like men are different and what I like may not be what she likes so the best advice is to ask her. She is the best person to tell you how she likes it. My friend and I discuss what we want all the time. At first I was really uncomfortable when he asked me how and where I wanted to do it. But now I'm having the best sex I have ever had.