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Q: Pee Holding Question

asked by: Nicola_UK_26 on July 19th, 2004

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My b/f and I have indulged in some pee play in the past. Last night he suggested we went the whole evening without peeing so we would both be desperate when we got home, something I know turns him on, so I agreed. We had a couple of pints in town and then went on to a club. We had another couple in there before heading home, by which time I was desperate for a wee!
We were walking back through town when he dragged us into a bar just before closing. I'd had enough but he insisted we had one more pint for the road. Half an hour later I was literally bursting! I'd had five pints of lager now and was frantic to ease the strain on my extremely full bladder. He was clearly desperate too by now and we were laughing about who'd get to go to the loo first when we got in.
Anyway about half way home I remember I got this awful sharp pain in my stomach, enough for me to stop in my tracks. I staggered onwards and made it home. He could see I was in quite a bad way by now so he said I could use the loo while he went out into the garden. I raced upstairs, sat on the loo, but no matter how hard I tried I simply couldn't pee!
I sat there for almost ten minutes with barely a dribble, despite my bladder being the size of a football! It was half an hour before I was able to pee properly.
Has this happened to anyone else? And could I have done any lasting damage? Today i'm needing to pee virtually every 15 minutes!

Replies(12)

kase

replied on July 27th, 2004

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Uran Infection???

I had the same thing about 2 years ago on a car trip. My parents wouldnt let me stop to go to the toilet. I had stabbing pains and it was killing me! Finally we stoped and I could not pee... I was sitting there desperatly needed to but it just wouldnt come out. Straight after that I spewed up and had to go to hospital. I found out I got or had a urinary disorder.
You should really go to a doctor and get checked out, because I should start meds as soon as possible so it doestn spread to your kidneys.
Goodluck!

Spoike

replied on July 30th, 2004

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I have that all the time and now I catheterize. I would suggest you visit a doctor about it and have yourself checked out to check for a urinary disorder.

I hope it all works out. Take care x.

mike_s6254

replied on August 8th, 2004

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Don't Worry

Hi, i'm a british medical student. The human body has in-built measures for times that people can't/won't respond to their bodily functoins - namely, when the pressure exceeds a certain amount, the sphinchter which is under voluntary (your own) control, will automatically relax way before any dangerous level is reached.

Obviously you should still see a medical professional if the pain comes back frequently

kathryna

replied on March 17th, 2008

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need to ask you a question

Spoike wrote:

I have that all the time and now I catheterize. I would suggest you visit a doctor about it and have yourself checked out to check for a urinary disorder.

I hope it all works out. Take care x.

meaning you have the catheter in your urethra so you can pee or it stays there since 2004?mine is i always hold my urine foe pleasure, didn't mean to, but all i know is i thought this is like masturbation, now i have incontinence back in oct 2007. and and then slowly the number of hours i can hod my urine shortens... and in the past month, i feel like this urine goes back to my kidney because sometimes i feel cold or warm on my sides by the rib area, and always it feels like it is vibrating or like pumping, probably reacting to the urine, that is coming back up from my bladder. and this bladder of mine does not contract anymore like it used to be so strong muscle. like the sphincter is already is not working.... before i feel pain if i dont go to bathroom if i hold my pee now there is no pain on the bladder area but warmth and coldness on my sides....

please help!

catonia

replied on April 2nd, 2008

Experienced User

Re: Don't Worry

mike_s6254 wrote:

I'm really confused now! Does it go away or come out automatically?

chiyaki-chan

replied on April 3rd, 2008

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Re: Don't Worry

mike_s6254 wrote:

So the body would not allow you to damage yourself. You'd get soaked before you caused yourself any harm.

Mike... Is it possible for this in-built measure to fail? And is it possible that the sharp pain could be something similar to a pulled muscle?

ちやき x

catonia

replied on April 3rd, 2008

Experienced User

Yeah.I once pulled a muscle that way when i was 8,though i hadn't drunk anything,so it was just too easy to hold lol.

Yeah the in-built measure can fail,but never in my life have i heard of a woman who can hang on that long. :S

Someone told me that it's impossible for a fully continent adult to have an accident no matter how desperate they get. Shocked

They said only pensioners and people with bladder problems could soak themselves from desperation.

Some one please tell me that they were telling me porkies!

^Serenity^

replied on April 3rd, 2008

Moderator

After reading this a few times I figured I'd offer my experience.
When I was in elementary school (many years ago) my teachers in many of the grades would not let me use the bathroom, they assumed it was my way of wanting to get out of class, well it turned out I had a kidney disease which was later discovered through a biopsy, all my doctors (urologist, nephrologist, and pediatrician) wrote notes to the schools I would be attending to allow me to use the toilet when I had to because holding my urine would do more harm to my kidneys.
There's a condition known as urinary reflux in which the urine backwashes into the kidneys from bladder, it can cause infections in the kidneys.

This doesn't only happen to children it can happen to adults if they don't go to the bathroom when they feel the need to go.

Yes some doctors will tell you to try and hold it to strength your bladder but I would only do this if my doctor told me to, giving my kidney disease, it's not worth holding it in.
It's only my opinion.
Take Care All.

catonia

replied on April 3rd, 2008

Experienced User

But i know many fully continent adults who soak themselves way before they damage themselves!

^Serenity^

replied on April 3rd, 2008

Moderator

Some people have weak bladders especially woman who have given birth.
As we age gravity takes hold and things start to give a little with us.

Have you been checked for a UTI, IC or to see if your bladder has dropped (there's a name for it but I can not recall it at the moment)?

If it has dropped there is an operation they do to lift the bladder. If it's a UTI an antibiotic will help.

Moonlight_Magic

replied on August 1st, 2008

New User

Im not convinced that i agree with the medical student. Personally i have held urine for pleasure and find that the longer i hold the harder it can get to pee. I have never ever been able to involuntarily wet myself so obviously my sphincter gets a little stressed out and doesnt know how to relax itself without a little help from myself.

One example i can give occured during early labour. Whilst this time wasnt pleasant or intentional (mostly because i was getting labour pains and had a 9bl 1 oz baby sat on my bladder the whole time) for some reason i found that, no matter how hard i tried, i could not urinate. The medical staff eventually realised that my bladder was full and inserted a cathater, but by that time i had not urinated for over 12 hours.

Even with a baby sitting on my bladder my sphincter didnt relax, involuntarily or on voluntarily.

The longest i have held urine for pleasure (although i wouldnt hold it for that long again) is 22 hours when my then partner was tring to get me to involuntarily wet myself. Obviously it didnt happen so we had to abandon the attempt. That time it took me the best part of half an hour to get my bladder to empty itself and that was with effort on my part.

Obvisouly some sphincters just dont like to chill out!

Moonlight_Magic

replied on August 1st, 2008

New User

Sorry for the repeat posts, my pc got a little excited and decided to do multiples!

Id also like to add, perhaps around the time the labour episode occured i had unusually strong muscles in the pelvic region? I can remember the gynocologist moaning constantly about there being too much muscle in the area and that it was causing him problems or getting in the way or something. And my partners never could 'get it in' in those days if i didnt want them too. If i clenched my muscles they had no chance!

I must have had the arnie *i can never spell his name* swarzan????' of pelvic floors back then! Perhaps i should have taken up shooting pingpong balls from my who-haa as a past-time, i could probably have broken the world record for distance and speed etc.

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