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Q: Bizarre Masturbation Question
asked by: Aerimara on July 17th, 2004
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Caught your eye, didn't i? Laughing

this question concerns my boyfriend and his masturbation "problem". Frankly, i'm at the end of my tether on this and so i'm looking for anything that will point me in the right direction.

His problem is that he gets migraines, like clockwork, 2 days after masturbating.

But here's the thing; if he's having sexual relations (actual intercourse or me masturbating him) with me, he does not have these problems. Only when he is masturbating himself. Only solo does he get migraines.

I found out about this because of his insistance to stop masturbating altogether (with varying amounts of success). Without having any religious convictions (he was raised agnostic) or any specific phobias (no feelings of guilt, sin, or wrongness...Or fears of making messes), he has decided to quit completely. He says that he had no migraines in the month that he managed it, and only gets them after masturbating.

My question is twofold, so here it is:

has anyone heard of this before, and/or does anyone have any theories or suppositions about what this might be? If I get ideas for questions to ask him, I bounce them off of him. Any thoughts whatsoever would be appreciated...

And 2) should I just, you know, drop the issue? I mean, it's not as if he needs "permission from [his] girlfriend to masturbate or not" (his words). But it's not the do or don't, it's the reason behind it that concerns me. The choice itself is fine. The grounds on which it is done need some looking into.

Your thoughts, please?
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sameer777
replied on July 25th, 2004
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Well Yes.same Here
I also experince migrame and headache after sex , but it does not make any diffrence if I do solo or my female partner................Do u get any help on tjis pls help me toooo
bye
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Aerimara
replied on July 27th, 2004
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Hmm
Welll... There is such a thing as orgasmic headaches (headaches that begin during or immediately after orgasm). Is that what you're experiencing?

That's the closest I can come to whatever my boyfriend...Uhm...Has. But as his had a 2-day-delay, I have no freaking clue what to make of it. Especially because it's only when he goes solo.

I tried asking him if was perhaps psychological, and dug around with that in mind, but he's adamant that he feels no guilt over it, and he would be much happier if I would drop that line of thought (he finds it patronizing), if I would be so kind.
*shrug*

if you have a lag-time as well...I guess we're in the same boat...But i'll share with you whatever I find.
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