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Q: God!!!! Can It Possibly Get Worse?!!?!!?!!!!

asked by: BbyBlu0602 on July 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I hate my life, I really do. I want to move away from here. I hate all the people here and I hate everything here. I want to just pack my stuff and leave and move to another state. God, last night I went to a party and a bunch of happened that I don't really wanna talk about on here. I didn't remember last night at all, and I talked to someone that was there earlier today and they told me everything that went on and all I have to say is I just wanna die right now. I feel so gross. I dunno what to do. I'm so lost right now. I don't have any friends to talk to about anything and i'm so alone. I seriously feel like my life is falling apart. I used to pray all the time and follow my religion pretty closely, but now I feel like no matter how hard I pray, I just keep getting punished for something. Nothing good is happening...Or is going to happen. I know it. I remember 6 months ago telling people that I felt like my life was slipping away and everyone was like, "it'll all be ok and things will get better". I've been waiting and waiting but all that is happening is things keep getting worse. I hate this....I can't stand it. I don't want to stay here and I can't go anywhere cuz my parents took my car keys and my mom busted a break line in her blazer today so now she's gonna be driving . Also, they left and went out to eat and took ethan and my brother with them and left me here. The reason they went out to eat was cuz there isn't any food here....So what do they expect me to eat??? I think i'm just gonna go.

Replies(8)

bd1012

replied on July 16th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

She took your keys away from you? How old r you, just wondering because if your over 18 then you should not stand for that. Not that it was your fault, i'm just saying that I would be like f** you, i'm leaving and taking ethan. Have you ever told them how you felt about them taking ethan at their will? Did they ask if you wanted to go with them to dinner? Sorry the 21 questions, I just need to know so I know how to react. I have been known to jump the gun here quite a few times.

BbyBlu0602

replied on July 16th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Yeah she took away my keys. I'm 17. I've talked to them numerous times about taking ethan, it's always the same and stays the same. No, they didn't ask me if I wanted to go. They called home and talked to my little brother and told him to get ready cuz they were going out to dinner. I asked him what the wanted and he was like, "they're coming here to pick me up to go out to eat."

bd1012

replied on July 17th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

That's so f'd up. Are you almost 18 at least? You def need to get out of there soon one day when they are gone or if you ever have ethan alone. Once your 18, they can not take your keys away from you! If they do, you can call the cops. If they take ethan they may get in trouble for kidnapping because it was without your permission. Even if calling the cops that one time does nothing, if your 18 they can't do anything to you or you can call the cops again and have something against them that may get them in jail depending on what they do.

newlife

replied on July 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Well whether you are 18 or not they cannot just take your son. Believe me you are his parent ,and it is considered to be kidnapping. And as for the car, who bought it (i mean paid for it), and whose name is on the tilte?
I don't know if you wok or not, but you are 17 so if you don't have a job you need to get one fast. That way if your 18th b-day is ar enough you'll be ready to move out by then. And you can get a lot of help from the government. I wanted to move out the day I turn 18, but b/c I need to be 18 to fill out my apartment application, I realize that won't happen but I still plan on being out of this house when I am 18, even if I have to live in a hotel or motel for a couple of weeks. Soyou really need to work, and I know that being young you want to spend all of the money that you get on stuff, but if you want to move you have to save. Oh yah, start making notes of when your parents take ethan without your permission, and when you tell them about it, also make a note of when they leave you with nothing to eat like they did. Eventhough you are a mother ,they are still responsible for your well being, and not feeding you is neglect.

smith8500

replied on July 17th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Huni I am so sorry things are so bad. I know nothing I say or do will make it better, but I truly hope things work out better for you! It must suck the way it is. As for your son. Baby, ethan is yours! You have to put your foot dowen sometime. I'd call the cops the next time they take my child without asking. As for the car. Who's is it? I'd try something. Hun, I am so sorry. I love you.
Love,
chanda

mommabear16

replied on July 17th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Wow. Sounds like both of us have some f-ed up things to death with...Dude we are close in age and ethan is one day older than alexander. Too bad there is no way that you could get here and we could move in together

BbyBlu0602

replied on July 17th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Yeah, we do have a lot in common. That would be really awesome. I dunno what i'm gonna go about a job tho. I was going to go to mtc this fall and take classes to become a vet assistant, but I couldn't get enough money saved up to pay the tuition because i'm still paying off hospital bills Sad

. Registration was 2 weeks ago, so I guess i'm not getting the job I wanted. It's like everyone tells you to get a good job so you can make good money and be happy, but in order to get that freaking job you have to have money to pay for the freaking schooling in the first place. Maybe next year.... Crying or Very sad

hm_03

replied on July 19th, 2004

Experienced User

Hey girl sorry to hear about that. Sometimes situations suck and there's never an explanation as why it happens. But don't worry it never rains forever right. The sun has to come out sometime soon. Just keep your head up don't let everything around you bring you down. You do have to put your foot down with your parents you're not a little girl anymore. They have to see that.

About schooling, is there any other altnerative for you to pay for the school. Maybe financial aid or a student loan. There could be someway you can work with that.

Take care and good luck.

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