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Q: Grrrrrrr!!!

asked by: tweety12986 on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hey guys I know I don't post much drama about my life, and I dont mean to bug anyone but I just really feel like venting. I love my boyfriend michael, we've been together 3 years and 8 months, but ever since I have gotten pregnant he urks me... A lot... And I dont know why. Besides that he seems like he just doesn't care that I am pregnant and he says some stupid stuff or he will do stuff to make me mad. Now I will admit that sometimes I get mad at the drop of a pen, but sometimes when I argue with him he could just walk away but he just has to be a smarta$$ sometimes and it makes me even more angry. Like the other night we were talking about going to louisiana and I asked him why he wanted to go and he said bcuz I want you to, and I was like thats it, and he was like and a few other things, and then he starts saying how he doesnt want me to get mad and put him on child support so if I am with him, that gives him some kind of security that I wont do it. I was sooooooooooo mad and he was like even if u werent pregnant I would want u to go. And he has these dreams of building race cars and he wants to build one now and I try to tell him he cant do that now there's a baby on the way, and he says well its always been a dream of mine and you and the baby are just out to get me!!!!!! Evil or Very Mad

and I just punched him in his head and walked out and he was like I was just playing, but I didnt care, and everyday he talks about this car and I shake my head, I am just waiting for him to buy something towards that car, then I am going to get my brothers and some friends to kick his but seriously. I don't know girls. I love him but I am seriously thinking about keeping my but here in texas and letting him go to louisiana.
Meagan

Replies(27)

KissyBai912

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I know how you feel. Guys can be so immature. They just can't seem to accept the fact that their family is supposed to come before cars/friends/games/sports and yes, even school! Guys just suck! Lol I feel for ya hun!

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Take time to decide this but the pregnancy is probably stressing him. I went through the same thing and its hard believe me. But you can get through this. If you feel you need to take some seperate time and think things over then do that. But its mostly the pregnancy stress. Guys get it too. Youve been together a long time so im sure you can do it! Its these hormones though!

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I am know it is stressing him for a fact, and I know when he is scared, sad or hurt he goes to his car stuff, but it was just when he told me that me and the baby were out to get him, and besides that he wont even tell any of his car buddies that he is about to have a baby bcuz he says they will make fun of him, and that just makes me think he is ashamed of this baby, but I will try and let him cope the way he wants to. Thanks nikki and chrissy I felt better after!I wrote all that stuff. Its nice to have people to talk to. My bestfriend who is preggy works all the time and I know her bf is way worse than mine.

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Lol yeah guys can be bad at times. But his hormones will go crazy too. Just like ours. And he might say things without thinking, and he will know hes wrong, but hes too macho to say sorry thats all. Its always good to vent though! Trust me! Lol. Keeping things bottled is not good. Also try talkng to him. Just say "is this something you want to be there for, or do you need to be off on your own??" and see what he says. Let him vent too. Keep in mind something stupid might come out lol

JenniferN

replied on July 14th, 2004

Experienced User

Men are just not like us. I have read book after book trying to understand my husband... One good one I am reading right now is called "the most important year in a woman lifes, what every bride needs to know" by susan devries & bobbie wolgemuth

its a great book, my friend reccomended it to me.. I am constantly trying to understand my husband. They are like totally diffrent creatures from a whole other planet I swear. I would highly reccomend it to you hun!

Other than that.. You need to tell him exactly how you feel and what upsets you. Best of luck hun.

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Its kinda funny that men are so simple you can understand them in a book. Lol. I will ask him that when he comes tonight nikki and see what he says... Obviously when I say just talk to me he cant so maybe a different approach.
Meagan

linuxChique

replied on July 14th, 2004

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Well that's normal for being pregnant! I've heard its really common to be annoyed by your guy during pregnancy.

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

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It is, but it kinda goes away lol. Before I couldnt stand for jose to kiss me and now im kinda ok with it. But he still does things that make me mad. Like hes loud and annoying, I swear he has the energy of a 10yr old.

Dont like ask him, kinda demand it with a lil hint of attitide. Lol. Like "so what you wanna leave??? Fine then!" lol not like that but in your words. Thats just what I say when im mad. Lol

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Omg I can't stand for michael to try and kiss me I think he thinks I am playing... Lol. And maybe all men regress when they find out they are gonna be daddies cuz he acts like a 5 yr old. He asked me to find his clothes so he could take a bath!!!!! Rolling Eyes

and I told him I wasnt gonna get two people ready for baths later on so no.

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Lol oh get used to that one! I have to do everything in my house!!! Clean cook, do laundry, fold...Its never ending. And before he could have small breakfasts but now he wants eggs, potatoes, bacon, and tortillas when he sits at the table! Im like look homie, your getting way to spoiled now!
Im telling you they get affected during pregnancy as much as we do. When you get further along he will change. At least hope he does lol

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Lol... Sounds just like my bf... Babe can u get me this, but if I ask its a witch hunt, why can't you do it, you always make me do stuff, and he said he would start to do stuff when I cant see my feet anymore. Lol. I told him by then the baby will be makin him do stuff.

bd1012

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yeah I hear you on the getting him ready part. I have to find my bfs clothes when he wants to take a shower, and when he comes home from work in an hour, he will probably want me to take his shoes, socks off and get him something to eat and drink right off the bat. Well maybe not tonight since our friends are coming over to hook up his cd player. Like that's going to happen. They have tried for about a total of 3 hours and no progress, just a bunch of head scratching Rolling Eyes

I am probably going to supply the drinks and go in the house and get this and get that. Get his medicine because more than likely he prob has a headache and he makes me handfeed it to him. I can't complain though cuz it's so cute!! Laughing

tomorrow I will prob have to wake him up to go to work and the next day... I like it but I don't want to have to wake up at 6:00 in the morning on my day off to wake some 30 year old guy up for work should he ever have to work that early so hopefully that will be something he can kick!! I mean in the future, he's not 30 now of course!

Who needs kids when I have a baby right here already! My fiancee, best friend and child all at the same time!! Rolling Eyes

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

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Lol omg I think I found joses twin lol. Everyday I hear, babe get me this. Get me that, serve me a soda, cook me a snack, get me some ice water. And I was sleeping..Ok sleeping. And I woke up and said oh can you get my phone so I can set the alarm? And he was like no, im not getting up. I was like what??? I serve you all day and you cant get your big butt up and move??? An he gets up lol.
Then yesterday he was cleaning my car and I went upstairs to change cuz I was going walking, and I forgot to get him a soda with ice, so I run down and hes like wheres my soda? And I was like oh I forgot im tired. And he was like "well go back up and get it" and I was like errrrr!!!! And then as im going hes like "dont forget alot of ice!" and I said oh kiss my butt!!

The he threw a fit cuz I bought me a 6-pack or orange juices for work, and as soon as we get home, he gets one and drinks it!! Big dummy! Lol

smith8500

replied on July 14th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Welcome to pregnancy. You'll be irritated one minute and happy the next. Guys don't understnad what being preggy is like. They just think it's another thing a woman does. Guys are dumb! Lol.
Vent anytime!
Love,
chanda

bd1012

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Yep all the same things my josh makes me do. I think it's a guy think. Thank goodness i'm not preggo!! Sheesh.

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Do you think michael could be there triplet... Whenever I go do something its like can I have some water...Ok... I bring the water.... You didnt put no ice, can I have some ice. I come out of the kitchen can I have a popsicle too. Grrr... Ok. So after all that i'm like babe can u get me some olives from the store... What does he say man i'm tired I been up since 5 in the morning everytime I come home u ask me to go right back out to the store. But he goes back out bcuz most of the time its so I can cook some dinner.

smith8500

replied on July 14th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

That sounds like most guys I know. Espically larry, stacie's boyfriend! I know he's a lot like that too! Guys suck!

nikki_caro

replied on July 14th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Lol tweety I think we have twins here. Most guys are so lazy and dependant on us! Lol.

tweety12986

replied on July 14th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

You know to more of a twist on things... I just thought about it too, but my bf doesnt live with me, he might as well though. I am gonna have to start sitting down.

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