As I posted in the other post I am so sorry but I am 100% against abortion. My brothers ex got preggy for him and had an abortion. We never knew. She called "josh, i'm in lake charles. I've aborted the baby" josh hung up. We've not talked to her since. I don't believe in it. It's the easy way out and an excuse. I cannot fathom the idea of it and I don't condone it at all. I'm sorry. You know how much I loved you and loved dom. But I can't.... I have lost all respect. And I am sorry. It's a personal thing, I cannot change.

I'll explian a little more... I know most of u probabley hate me because wat I am going to do but owell thats ur problem.. I am not stickin arounf on here cuz I know it wont be the same... So bye

Bye hun.

Dont be ungrateful for the support you have gotten

meg

All the support I have gotten is dont do it!! If they were truley going to support me they would not make me feel worse

I believe alison and brenda supported you....... In the other post you made. Do you expect people to cheer you on to k I l l your kid! Hell no!

Let me just say this.
You said if we were truly supporting you we would not be making you feel worse.....
If you feel bad about it at all then it is not the right decision for you. I feel that if you do have an abortion you will never ever forgive yourself. Everytime you look at your little boy you will wonder what your other child would have been like.
My advice is to have this child and then use protection! Get your tubes tied (if they will do it but probably not because you are too young) get norplant, depo, patch, pill, foam, diaphram, condoms. There are many, many things you can use to prevent another pregnancy.

That is prolly why I am so angry. I know christina and I don't believe she wants to do this.....

That is what I am sayin....I don't think she wants to either. I believe that in her situation it would be a horrible, horrible mistake.
I am trying to be supportive. I apologize if it is not working, but I am not going to be supportive by lying and saying, "hey, go for it. Yeehaa" that would just be wrong.

Well I can see why u wouldnt want to keep the baby... U do have another one already and your very young. But hey, in my opinion, u were the irresponsible one, u have another kid, so you know how easy it is to get pregnant and u obviously werent avoiding it. Theres no reason to not give it up for adoption. I dont think u should keep the baby either. .But adoption is way better, especially when its your fault.

I think its you're choice, and whatever you feel is right to do, then you do it. I you think you wouldn't be able to cope with another baby, then thats you're choice and no one should judge you otherwise, you are doing what you feel is best.

I dont support you, will somebody please find the post about how we all felt about adoption and tell me what she said under it.

You are one sick health forum. So why werent you on bc after you had dom? Why werent you at least using condoms? How can you just pick and choose which kid lives and which one dont? You dont deserve to have another kid, and you dont deserve to have dom either. I hope you realize whats right and give both of your kids up for adoption... Yea, both... Abortion doesnt make you still a mother of one... It makes you a mother of two, that had killed one. You are obviously very irresponsible. I think they should make it a law that if you have one kid, under the age of 21, and you abort another, your kid should be taken from you, you shouldnt be allowed to pick and choose. Abortion isnt the only option, why not adoption? There are sooo many people just waiting to spoil your kid to death. And you say you dont want to hear people saying this stuff, then why the hell would you come here and announce your pregnancy to all of us, and then tell us you are aborting the child, when you know how much controversy gets started even when somebody just thinks about an abortion. You could have just not told us, and just left it at that, but you came here tellin us you were preggy again, so its your fault we are saying this stuff to you. You are just one immature, irresponsible, selfish little health forum.

Alright everyone let's stop being hostile. First of all you do not know her situation so who are you to judge her decision without knowing? I don't like abortion either but you don't see me screaming at people who will have one, at least not anymore now that I actually have some knowledge about it. There are plenty of situations where one is necessary or seemed to be necessary and you have obviously not been in them. I don't know if she really is being selfish and lazy or not, but I am at least giving her the benefit of the doubt. If she was selfish than why did she not abort dominick? I am pretty sure the first pregnancy is scarier than the second and maybe she knows that if she doesn't her mom will find out and disown her or something. Why should her mother be any happier than you guys have been about her getting pregnant again? Not that, that is a good reason for it but you are not her right now. Anyway how about we not jump the gun and realize that there maybe another reason for it then selfishness.

As for adoption, I heard and know of some people that had a very rough time in the foster homes and yeah many people adopt but what happens to the kids no one finds "cute" enough?? It's not guaranteed that hispanic jasmine will find a place in an american home.

I am just telling the truth, and I remind you, I don't like abortion either, but since I have been debating this for about 3 months now I actually know some things about it other than I don't like it.

There is a thing called open adoption, where you pick a family, out of a ~huge~ stack of profiles. These people are just happy to be getting a baby, and dont expect it to be some fantasy baby off the cover of the baby talk magazine. Yes we do know her story, she wasnt careful the first time, and figured she could handle a kid, and kept dom... She wasnt careful for the second time, knowing she is fertile, ends up preggy again, 7 months after her first son was born, and decides shes just going to kill this one. Everybody is so angry with her cuz they know her, and cant believe she is doing this. I dont think you really understand how this forum is. Mostly everybody here is tight knit, and we know each other stories... The thing is, that she knows how against abortion alot of us are, and she comes here and announces it. She knew we would all flip. How about you stay here for a bit longer, and get to know how things work around here, before you tell us how to react. Yes she is being selfish. She is using abortion as a form of birthcontrol.

Ive only just got on but from what i've read i'm guessing christina wants an abortion.How doing it stupid is that girl? Don't you realise that unprotected sex=pregnancy.We are forever going on about this & emphasing the importance of safe sex when young girls come on talking about how they want babies.
How can you ki ll your own child when you will remember it every time you look at dom? Do what you want but if you abort your baby you won't be welcome here by a lot of us

And bd1012...Most of the people here, do know her situation.. Actually!


Its just the point. She has one kid already.. So obviously she knows how easy it is to have kids so young. So she shouldve been more responsible the 2nd time around! No one here is saying she should keep the baby (thats obvious that she shouldnt) but come on.. Adoption isnt exceptable now when its clearly one's own negligence?

I havent really said anything on this topic.... But I feel i'll speak now. As most everyone here knows.. I had an abortion when I was 14 and for reasons already stated. I can tell u now it is the hardest thing u will ever have to go thru or live with. This may be ur decision now... But living with the fact of having an abortion is harder than raising a second child.
I know a girl whos 18 with two kids and she finds it hard living off the government and all, but she wouldnt trade her life for anyone else's.
Im not going to say mean things or anything.... But I just want u to know that I know for a fact u will regret this. The girls on here are just tryin to help u see it that way. Abortion is a very hard thing to deal with and if u think postpartum depression is hard, think of the depresion u'll suffer for years after this abortion. And I literally mean years. It still bothers me to this day about mine, but I have to live with the fact of what ive done and I try to tell teens to not go around that way. I know many of my friends have had abortions too and they've all told me how much it bothers them. I really hope u consider this topic more seriously and make the right decision. Plz, for u and dom... Plz consider this carefully.

Shauna

Well I don't know if your still on here but I would like to make this clear, I am against abortion but I haven't been on your a$$ because you are getting an abortion, I have been on your a$$ because of the reason you gave which is so selfish. You said that you are getting one because it wouldn't be the best for you or dominick to have the baby, and I understand that. But just because it wouldn't be in your best interest to keep the baby doesn't mean that you have to kill it. That is why in my mind there is more to this story, and from what i've been hearing from you whatever else there is to it is very very selfish. Btw how far along are you? And how many people besides us know that you are pregnant? And eventhough I am against abortion ,you would fully have my support if you had a legit reason for it, because I do believe in a person's right to choose. But in this matter you being selfish, is taking a life and you don't have the right to choose that.