Welcome to the group! I am ladybrannon.
My first question: have you seen a rheumatologist? I don't recall you speaking of one in your story?
What other symptoms? I know you spoke of rashes, etc. But can you think of other things? Sometimes things that seem insignificant are not...
If you are thinking lupus or an autoimmune (there are tons that mimic lupus), might I suggest keeping a diary? In that diary, note headaches, pain, fevers, and anything else you feel necessary. Take it to the doctors.
Keep a list and a copy of all the blood work, especially if they start sending you to several type of specialists! This will be invaluable to everyone!
Good luck! I wish you well! If you have any questions or concerns, ask away! They are some people here that have been diagnosed with lupus for years!
Hugs,
ladybrannon