Thankyou so much for replying ramsassy, it is so good to be able to get some feedback. Yes my husband's injury was originally caused by heavy lifting at work, and he is now at the stage where some days he can barely walk or drive the car, to make it worse we have a manual car. He has tried every medication the doctor could possibly prescribe, the doc even offered him narcotics at one stage, but he decided against that, as he didn't want the complications later of the addiction side of it. We are waiting to see a specialist who may be able to refer him to get a micro discectomy, we have heard it is much better than bone fusion. Which operation did your husband have ? If they could operate and take away even 50% of the pain, he would be very greatful for that, so if an op will take away 90%, i'm sure he would be in heaven. I think after the pain and suffering he has been going through the last 3 years, he will probably be too scared to lift anything ever again.
Thankyou once again for your reply.
Suzy