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Q: Can I Still Get Pregnant After a Miscarriage???
asked by: ShOrTyRoC on July 12th, 2004
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I had a miscarriage 2 years ago and I didnt go to the hospital cause I was too afraid to I was in pain for one day and I had my period for three weeks after the miscarriage I was alright. But its strange that my boyfriend ejaculates in me sometimes and I would think I d be pregnant but my period comes and I get upset Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad could it be that I cant get pregnant cause of the miscarriage cause I didnt go to the hospital Question Question I need help I really need to know this feeling that I have that I cant have babys has gotten to the point that I cant think straight I get real upset can some one please reply Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad
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AMAZINGSTAR
replied on July 12th, 2004
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Hey
Its extremely unlikely that you can not have babies but no one really knows until they start trying and have been for over a year.Most docs will not even send you for fertility tests until you havebeen trying for over a year.
I to had a misscarriage a month ago so I know how you feel on the that note.Are you trying at the moment? Maybe you should go see your doc and expalin your worries.But I would not fret over it.There are so mnay things and options to help women conceive now.
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2ferano
replied on July 12th, 2004
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Well, if you had a miscarriage, did not go to the doctor and did not get sick or die from an infection then you should be fine.
You are suppose to go to the doc after a miscarriage to get a d&c to clean you out and prevent infection. But, like I said if you had a bad infection you would definately have known it.
So, most likely you are fine. Just relax and enjoy trying to make a baby. Stress will make it harder to become pregnant. Good luck.
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ShOrTyRoC
replied on July 12th, 2004
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Thank u u guys had really made me feel better and to see things in a different way but I still dont uderstand y is it that I dont get
pregnant Question Crying or Very sad could it be me or could it be tha positions I do it in cause I heard that if you do it in a certain position u can get pregnant faster but those stories I really dunt believe Confused
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sparklypixie12
replied on July 12th, 2004
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Don't believe those myths-changing positions won't make it easier for you to become pregnant.The main thing is that you relax-stress doesn't do your body any good & if you stop thinking about it for a while maybe it will happen when you least expect it.Good luck
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o-ana
replied on July 15th, 2004
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Miscarriage
I just had a miscarriage, couple of days ago. It was the worst nightmare I ever experience in my whole life. Only a few days before my doctor had told me that I am pregnant. I was 7 weeks far. My boyfriend and me were very happy about it when we found out, but then only a few days after, I started having cramps combined with bleeding. I went to my gyno for a check up and the ultrasound showed everything was allright with the baby as for now, but if the bleeding got any heavier I should go immediately to the hospital. That night bleeding started getting massive, it wouldnt stop as well as the pain. I hoped it would go away, but also was prepared that it could be something serious. I prayed that my baby would survive. In the morning I checked in to the hospital where they diagnosed a miscarriage. No heartbeat - nothing. I was under shock and burst out in tears.
They told me they would have to make a d&c as for to remove the rest of the bodyparts.
At first I refused, because, I couldnt realize my baby was dead.
After a long talk with the doctor, I agreed as it was the best for my health.
I still do not know how deal with it all, and ask myself why? And what my fault was.
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sandyallen
replied on July 15th, 2004
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O-ana
Don't blame yourself! It is not your fault! Sometimes things happen that we have noooooooooooooooooo control over!
I read in your other post that you have a four y/o daughter, she still needs you, when the time is right, you will probably have another baby but try not to rush it, give yourself and your body time to recover.
Sincerely,
sandy
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o-ana
replied on July 17th, 2004
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Thank you so much for your words!!!!!!!!!

You are so right and it helped me a lot to go on with everything. Its right when they say time heals wounds, although I think I will never go over it totally, but at least, I try to carry on.
I have a child that who really needs me to be there for her.
I just hope that I dont have to go through this a second time in my life.

Thanks again!
Oana
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leila4444
replied on January 28th, 2009
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when is it safe to try again
I just had a miscarriage 3 days ago and i had a horrible weekend crying and hoping the blood was nothing to worry about like the doctors said, just relax and lie down, lie down and lie down, i did it all for nothing the baby was already dead a week b4 i bleed. Anyway i am looking to the futur and still want a baby more than anything in the world. I'm 31 and been ready for years now waiting on my bf to be ready too, we had been trying for 7 months b4, i hope it won't take as long this time. Someone told me if i don't wait 6 moths my chances are really high of loosing it again , is this true? i hope not, i
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Jaxon
replied on January 30th, 2009
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No one really knows when its safe to try again. I had a miscarriage at 6 and a half weeks last year in the summer, and I don't ever want to try again. My oldest sister had three and then had my neice and nephew.ve your body and mind time to recover from the shock. So like I said... no one really knows. But gi if you want to try again all the best of luck to you.
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Mona_Lisa
replied on April 21st, 2009
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getting pregnant after a miscarriage
I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks on January 22 2008. Pregnancy went well started having a brown discharge called OB/GYN several times that week told not to worry. Went to emergency room. Did not have any cramps or pain just afraid. No heart beat was found and a D&C was done that night. I did not go to my follow up visit. We've been trying to get pregnant again since loosing our daughter. It's now April 22 2009 and I would like to know what should I do next?
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jheng
replied on April 21st, 2009
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me too...
i had a miscarriage yesterday,,i went to the Er and they do what they need to do...but they sent me home...and in the evening something came out from my v and it looks like thats my baby,,my husband buried her...sad but life must goes on...
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DarkDesire85
replied on April 28th, 2009
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Hello dont panic its ok
When i was younger i didnt get my period like normal girls so i thought there was something wrong with me anyway at 16 my periods arrived but i had been thinking this way for so long it just stuck there,at 18 i met a man fell in love and started trying to concieve after 3 years with no luck i went to see a doc they ordered tests but they said to me after you book the tests do a pregnancy test as you cant have tests if pregnant so i went home and decided not to worry anymore as soon i would find out what was wrong with me 10 days after going home from that office i got pregnant it was my mind stopping me from concieving i was talking to a lady the other day and her daughter was the same as soon as she saw the doc she got pregnant.In your case remember this you have already gotten pregnant i know it didnt work out and that is so hard to deal with (I've had 3 miscariages since i had my first son)but you are not infertile and as soon as you believe this and stop worrying its going to happen for you i really hope you can do this as i know you will get the baby you so want.If it helps you see the fertillity doctor and let them tell you,that your totally healthy then you will be able to relax and it will happen good luck with this i know this pain all to well and i'll be thinking of you please keep us posted come tell us when your pregnant Smile
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DarkDesire85
replied on April 28th, 2009
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To the lady's suffering with their losses
Hello girls im so sorry for your losses ive had two this year first was in june last year missed misscarrige at 10 weeks 3 days that was by far the hardest to deal with then 3 months later i had natural misscarige at 5 weeks now 6 months later im now 10 weeks 3 days again and have a scan tomorrow im terrified that they will tell me its gone again but im trying to stay hopeful im sorry to go on about being pregnant after what your going through but i guess what im trying to say is this is not the end keep hopeing and trying good luck ladys let us know how you are doing xxx
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Saragirl
replied on May 3rd, 2009
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Re: when is it safe to try again
leila4444 wrote:
I just had a miscarriage 3 days ago and i had a horrible weekend crying and hoping the blood was nothing to worry about like the doctors said, just relax and lie down, lie down and lie down, i did it all for nothing the baby was already dead a week b4 i bleed. Anyway i am looking to the futur and still want a baby more than anything in the world. I'm 31 and been ready for years now waiting on my bf to be ready too, we had been trying for 7 months b4, i hope it won't take as long this time. Someone told me if i don't wait 6 moths my chances are really high of loosing it again , is this true? i hope not, i


I had a misscarriage whan I was 18. 5 months later (without really trying, but not preventing it) I got pregnant again. I now have a beautiful 17 month old baby girl who is healthy. I am also 25 weeks pregnant with a little boy who seems healthy so far. Good luck!
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DarkDesire85
replied on May 3rd, 2009
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Hi leila
I would say this is not true i did lose one 3 months after my missed misscarrige but i think this was just too much worrying because ive read alot of storys of people who got pregnant weeks after and they had their children just fine so when ever your ready is the best time.After the missed misscarrige i rushed into getting pregnant before my mind was ready and i was panicking from day 1 and i belive this is what caused my second loss so please try not to worry when you get pregnant again only positive thoughts because im now 11 weeks pregnant and although i get nervous before scans the rest of the time i tell myself positive thoughts i know it sounds silly but it does work good luck keep us posted and im sorry for your loss
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