Hi there, I know a lot of you will probably be able to help me out here, and I hope that you won't be too judgemental of me, I really need some help here.

I'm 16 years old, and at a party in may, I got really drunk. I know I shouldn't have as legally, I am not old enough to drink alcohol. I was so paraletic that I passed out, and cannot remember a large portion of the evening. I also suffered several bangs to the head as I could not stand properly. At about 3am, sunday morning, I woke up in a bathroom, next to a guy, and he came on to me, as I was still pretty drunk I went along with it for a while... Then when he said do u think we should have sex? I said no, as we had no condom. Then I banged my head on the door and can't remember what happened.

As the next weekday was a bank holiday, I was unable to go to a doctors, so I went on tuesday for the morning after pill. Which I took, and then I had my normal period on the day it was due the 4th june. It's now the 8th of july, and I still have not had my period which was due on the 3rd. I was wondering if this meant that I am pregnant, as I have not had my period yet.

I know that the morning after pill (levonelle 2) is notorious for messing up the menstrual cycle, and wondered if this could be a cause of my delaed period. I have also just taken my gcse's, so it may be stress related, though my period has never been late before.

I know that if I am pregnant, I will be having an abortion, as I feel I am not mentally ready to care for another life, when I have trouble caring for my own. I also have plans to go on to college, and possibly to university, and having a child now, would make those plans pretty much impossible.

If any of you can offer me some advice, it would be much appriciated. Thank you xx