My 62-yr old father was diagnosed w/gastric cancer (w/liver metasteses) 10/6/03. He's been going thru chemo ever since. First regimen was carboplatin every 3 weeks + 2 weeks of xeloda. Brought a partial remission for about 6 mos and was reasonably tolerated. Second regimen was taxol. Didn't do a thing against the cancer and made my dad nauseous, lose 30 lbs, have allergic reactions during administration. Doctor was preparing us for hospice but suggested we try a third regimen of oxalyplatin and xeloda. Side effects are manageable and we just found out that he's in another partial remission. Chemo is definitely no fun, but it has been mostly manageable for my dad--he's continued to work part-time, he's been able to spend quality time w/my kids and he's beaten the odds.