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DanaM
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I Am So Scared Right Now
Posted: 07-05-04 15:59pm
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Hello I am terrified right now.
I went to a bar five months ago, on a dry
night as I am only 16. And a guy from
my school that I know wanted to buy me a
coke, so I said sure, but I had to go to
the bathroom, so when I came back he had
already got and paid for my drink. We
talked a lot, and danced, than a few hours
later I got very groggy. I don't
remember anything that went on that night.
The next morning I found myself naked
in his bed. I totally freaked out. I
grabbed my clothes and got out of there as
fast as I could run. I never thought
about what had happened to afraid to.
So I never told anyone. So I just went
on with my life as best as I could. I
never thought about pregnancy at all.
And my period has been totally irregular
my whole, life, and I was told by my
doctor I would probably never be able to
have children. Well four months went
by. I put on a little weight, and I was
sick a lot, but I never once thought I was
pregnant, my doc, said it was just my
depression, as I have been on paxil since
the terrible night. Then finally after
four and half months I collapsed at
school. I was brought to the hopsital
immediatly. There my life changed for
the worse. I found out I was 17 weeks
pregnant and I didn't know! I have
always been a little overweight, and my
weight had gone up and down a lot by ten
pounds or a more. So I never thought I
was pregnant. I had my first ultrasound
at the hospital, and my doctor found out I
am carrying triplets, and maybe even
quads. I am terrified. I don't know
what to do. I am now 20 weeks pregnant,
and my doctor found out I am carrying
three babies for sure, but he is not sure
about four. Now the guy who raped me is
constantly harrassing me and my family.
I am terrified, anyone have any advice?
Last edited by DanaM on 07-05-04 17:15pm; edited 1 time in total
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KariM1804
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Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 07-05-04 16:21pm
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Ok this sounds a little weird. First of
all u said u went to a bar 6 months ago...
Well that would put u at 24 weeks, not
20....And also, how isnt this guy in jail
if he raped u and u know who he is?
Wouldnt the cops being doing something
about a guy that raped u harrassing u
now???? And what is ur family doing?
Are u keeping the babys? Some of this
sounds a little weird.. Maybe u can
clear this up by answering..
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DanaM
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Posted: 07-05-04 16:29pm
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I'm sorry, my mind is going haywire, it
wasn't exactly 6 months ago, more like
five. I never told anyone I was raped in
the beginning, until I found out I was
pregnant, I was terrified. We have put
restraining orders against him, and he has
been arrested twice. I am sorry I
bothered you guys, I was just really
terrified, and I didn't know where to
turn.
Dana
Last edited by DanaM on 07-05-04 17:17pm; edited 1 time in total
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lauren22
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Posted: 07-05-04 16:30pm
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Yeah, that does sound wierd! Really
wierd, considering triplets and quads are
very uncommon without fertility drugs!
But I guess wierder things have happened!
Haha
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 07-05-04 16:57pm
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KariM1804
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Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:03pm
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Ok well if hes been arrested.. And u
have a restraining order against him..
The cops would do something about it if he
was harrassing u. And also if uve never
told anyone u were raped, then what is the
restraining order on him for and why was
he arrested? People still dont know?
Then who do they think ur preg by?
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DanaM
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:14pm
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He broke into my parents home, and he was
arrested for that and we put a restraining
order on him for making harrasing phone
calls, emails, and letters. He has
repeatedly threated my life, and my
parents lives. He was arrested again for
violating the restraining order, and is
currently in jail, but the police say he
will be let out on bond. And I am
terrified, he doesn't seem to stop. I
didn't tell anyone I was raped by him. I
told my parents, my brother, and my
sister, but there is not proof, it's his
word against mine.
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smith8500
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Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-05-04 17:14pm
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No, it's your word! Fight it! And then
prove it's his child.
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babyrae
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tweety12986
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:17pm
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Ok in dana's defense the worst thing you
can do is not say anything until later, it
happened to me and I didnt say anything
until later, and after you wait there is
nothing but your word and it doesnt go too
far. Do your parents know you are
pregnant?
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smith8500
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Hey
Posted: 07-05-04 17:17pm
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It's floating. I can't trace it! That
sucks!
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:18pm
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If this is true, then fight it to the
death and get a dna test. Honestly though
this sounds like springer shiat.
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KariM1804
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:20pm
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Yea once u get a paternity test. . And
they see that is it his babys.. Then they
would believe you about the rape.
.Especially sence u have proof that hes
messed up and u have restraining orders
against him and that hes been threatening
u guys......So it seems like it could
easily be faught and won on ur side....
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sparklypixie12
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babyrae
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:22pm
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Shute that sux!
Who's supporting u in your pregnancy? Are
your parents there to help u? How can the
docs not tell if theres 4 or 3 in there
when ur already 20 weeks??? Are u seein a
specialist???
Shauna
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tweety12986
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:22pm
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This is so off of what everybody else was
saying but I would like to know what kind
of super sperm he has to get you pregnant
with triplets
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Mesmerizeu15
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DanaM
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:24pm
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I am sorry if my life, and my situation,
sounds like a soap opera mesmerizeu15. I
really wish it was. I didn't want my life
to go like this. I am only 16 years old.
You think I wanted this to happen to me.
Well I didn't. I wished to god I wasn't
in this situation. You can believe what
you wanna believe that's up to you. All I
know is that I am terrified. And I didn't
know where to turn anymore. So if does
sounds like springer shiat, you can go
ahead and believe that. Sorry to bother
you.
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KariM1804
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Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:25pm
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Its just odd I guess. It seems very
provable that he raped u. R u going to
have a dna test done to prove that their
his kids? Then with his background.. It
seems like they would definitly be on ur
side. ..
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tweety12986
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:25pm
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Noooo. No one means any harm it is a
pretty messed up situation.
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