I need some tips/pointers.... New
positions. Does not have a particularly
large penis, nor is it think maybe 4 1/2
inches hard....In love with him, I
think.....Sex doesnt matter that much
right???
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-06-04 20:53pm
Oh, I am so sorry!
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 07-07-04 17:26pm
That was a very helpful reply. Why waste
her time even posting that?
Anyways - I have never been with an
overweight person (chubby yes...Overweight
no) so i'm not positive what a correct
answer would be. However I was curious
as to what positions you have tried? I
wondered if maybe you being on top or him
entering you from behind would be any
easier. Have you tried that? How about
oral sex or even toys?
As for whether sex matters, it kind of
does. It just depends on the strength of
your relationship and your sexual needs.
Loving relationships involve sex. It is
possible to be in love and not have sex
although generally, you can't stay that
way forever. Either you or him are going
to begin craving the intimacy you get from
sex. Sometimes though some relationships
don't need sex on a very regular basis
while others can't seem to get enough.
Everything just depends on each others
sexual appetite. What it boils down to -
do you love him enough to be satisfied in
the kind of sexual relationship you
currently have with him? Or are you left
wanting more and eventually may end up
searching for your satisfaction elsewhere?
Granted this is only one part of your
total relationship with him - but say he
had horrible body odor or an intense
obsession with decorative ceramic mugs -
could you love him enough to accept and
live with that?
Its a choice as to whether this is
something you are willing to accept and
continue the relationship because you care
for him that much or whether a lackluster
sex life will always eat at you and be a
source of resentment and disappointment.
Everyone has their faults - as with anyone
you would date you just have to evaluate
them and decide if it is something you can
live with or something that isn't worth
the aggrevation. Good luck!!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-09-04 03:05am
If you do not like my posts, then don't
bother responding to them, okay!
Sunshine and I talk here and through pm
and I can respond to her posts like that
if I want to.
You said yourself, I have never been with
an overweight man......Well, neither have
i, which is why I didn't even try to give
advice for it.
No hard feelings, but let's not get mean!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-09-04 03:30am
P.S sorry if that post seemed ignorant.
Your post just kinda hurt my feelings.
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mooseboy84
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004 Posts: 5
Posted: 07-11-04 05:59am
First of all sex with an "overweight" man
is vague.
Does he weigh 400 lbs or is 250? Both are
overweight.
Secondly. How large is his pannus? [the
roll of fat that hands down below the
waist]. Is it so large that it inteferes
with the contact between you too?
How large are you?
The first thing I would suggest is more
positions with you on top. Its jus a
natural progression when your not working
with much. also try positions
where your doing the "splits" on top of
him.
Also there is an option of him trying a
penis pump. I have one and it does work.
You will here claims it doesnt work, its
phony but for 100 or so you can get a real
pump that will give him length. I know
because I [am/was] small below the belt.
The gains arnt permanet, but 2 extra
inches while you plan to have sex is alot.
He will also gain gerth. Email me if oyu
want.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Whole Lotta Love Posted: 07-11-04 10:14am
Hello,sunshine-
I have only dated one
large man and he too was not particularly
well endowed.You need to be on top,that
way you can breathe(i'm not
kidding).Sometimes if you face away from
your partner that works or doggy-style can
work if he does not put all his weight on
you.The spoon position works also,but get
creative,if you both work to please each
other -who knows what you'll come up
with!!! good luck-if you
both love each other you'll find
away!!Patty
also try positions
where your doing the "splits" on top of
him.
