I am 47 yrs old, and probably abit peri-menipausal (spelling?). My breasts get very tender about 4 days before I get my period. Well, my period has come and gone, and my breasts are still so sore! I am not preganant, as my husband had that taken care of quite some time ago. I am tired and bloated, just like I never got my period at all---anyone have any suggestions as to why this is happening? Thanks all.........