I'm in my first relationship with a guy
and vise versa(his first relationship with
a girl) we get each other aroused, but he
doesn't seem to be all there when I try to
do stuff to him. He tells me that rubbing
his testicles didn't do much. I even
tried giving him a blow job and even then
he didn't seem fully into it . In a way I
want to give it to him like he does to me.
I feel uncomplished sometimes after we
had foreplay. I need some advice on what
to do. Is there anyway I can get him to
reach an orgasim or even just totally
aroused instead him doing the masterbating
to get one.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Getting to Know You.... Posted: 07-04-04 11:59am
If this is a first relationship for both
of you,you need time to find a comfort
level with each other.It would be great if
the first time you were intimate with a
person,fireworks would explode and the
earth would move.That usually only happens
in romance novels.Your boyfriend may not
be able to express how he'd like to be
touched(very common ).Just give yourselves
time to learn about each others' bodies
and how they respond(in a safe manner,of
course-always practice safe sex).
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-04-04 18:49pm
Yeah patty is right. It will probably
just take time, but he also might be
nervous. He may try to hide how much he
really likes it out of embarassment.
Some people are like that. Or, he may
just be comfortable with you touching him
yet. It sounds weird, but don't take it
offensively. He is probably just
nervous. Just relax with each other and
experiment. As long as you are both
understanding everything is fine, but if
he starts to get pushy or ignorant then
don't put up with that.
