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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Guys (vent)
Posted: 07-02-04 20:38pm
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Ughhhh I hate guys!
Okay, my parents are outta town so I came
here (to my parents house) to visit my sis
and her bf (who live here until august)
and tim was with me and he got all grumpy
and left and he didnt come back for me (i
had no way to get home and it was dark and
raining out so I could not even try to
walk!) and he came back later to tell me
he had to work at 6am so he was just goin
back to the apartment to sleep. Well I
went on msn later (i was still at my
parents and he went back to our apartment)
and he wa son msn and I was talkin to him
and I told him my contractions were really
startin to hurt and he said "well I hafta
work but if they get real bad, call me at
work" and I signed off but when I signed
back in at 2:30 am, he was online and he
put his status to "away" as soon as I
came on so I went to "appear offline" and
he put his status back to "online" so I
came back online and he went offline right
away (i think he blocked me). Like he was
sposed to be sleepin cuz he had to work at
6:30?? Wth?? And I was talkin to a woman
in my apartment and she said she saw a
girl(caps) go up to my apartment door last
night at about 1 like, wth!!!!!! Then
today (i slept at my parents place cuz I
was ooo pissed off at him). He hasnt even
called me yet today (and dont forget, last
time I talked to him I was having thsoe
contractions so for all he knows, I could
be in the hospital having our baby but
noooo he doesnt check or nothing) and I
was talkin to one of his friends today and
he told me that tim's sposed to have a
buncha people over later to drink.
Like.... Wth!!!! Its my apartment too
and he didnt ask me if a buncha poeple
could go there. I am soo pissed im in
tears right now. Hes been getting on my
nerves lately like that and im so worried
that we're not right for eachother and
problems are gonna arise after baby's
born. He tells me all the time he wishes
I get bad strecthmarks and hopes i'll
never go back to my skinny self again and
tells me caca like that. Im so hurting
and im so stressed but I dont wanna be
stressed for baby. Like today (i feel so
bad for thinking this) but I kept wishing
my contractions were real, just so I could
go to the hospital and not have him know.
I feel so bad for thinking that way and
bein selfish in thinking like that! I'm
sorry this is so long but I needed to vent
and I have no one to talk to right now. I
wanna go out tonight and just stay out, I
feel like I hate him im so upset. Sorry
girls, dont mean to be the "sour" one all
the time hahaha! Thanx for letting me
vent 
shauna
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 07-02-04 21:11pm
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Girllllll all that stress is guna make
that baby come. U all saw me vent b4
alyvia was born n look she was 6 weeks
early. U n kari got 11 days max to go I
know it...Tell him to mature up or eff
off...Hes guna b a dad!N u say that .You.
R sour muahahahaha...Hehe..Good luck girl
ur baby will be here within 11
days..Promise.
Love mol
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 07-02-04 22:31pm
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Why does he tell you that he hopes you get
bad stretch marks, and that you never go
back to normal? Thats just not right, he
shouldnt be havin people to come over and
drink and not even say one word to you
about it. It sounds almost like hes fakin
reasons to get upset at you, so then he
can have the place to himself. Dont
stress over a guy thats not worth it...
Dont stress over a guy period, cuz if he
makes you stress then its not worth it...
Just sit it out, and keep you and your
beautiful baby in your mind, dont worry
about him, guys are just stupid, and he
will regret it if he messes up, and trust
me, its hard to hide things, so you will
find out in time.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 07-02-04 23:42pm
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He tells me that cuz he said he doesnt
want other guys to look at me and he
doesnt want me to be a "bar promiscuous
person" after the baby's born. Like, god
im not gonna be like that. And now I feel
reeeeeeeaaallllly stressed out like so bad
I feel like im having trouble breathing
and I just wanna scream (im tryin not to
stress but I cant help it) I dont wanna
talk about it all cuz its too long but
more caca has happened since my last post
here and im sooo stressed im scared of
like, what happened to molly (how she got
stressed and delivered early) is gonna
happen to me. Ahh im like freaking out I
need help calming donw im so scared....
Shauna
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 07-02-04 23:59pm
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Shauna-
if he thinks that low of u and wants that
out of u, then eff that. A mans supposed
to treat u good and make u be a better
person, and lift u up in every way.
U...And...Your baby deserve a better man
than that. Guys are always guna look at u
cuz ur beautiful and u can def. Find a
better one. It is hard waitin but u can
be like me and hang out silently til u
find a new one... Ethically wrong? Maybe
so but they deserve it. Grease says it
best "men are ameboas on fleas on rats"
love mol
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-03-04 08:50am
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lmao at molly.....Shauna girl it will be
ok....He is so totally not worth stressing
over....I suggest you call him and give
him a piece of your mind and tell him I am
going to knock him senseless if he doesn't
straighten up and fly right! Lol. I hope
you feel better girl!
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-03-04 11:59am
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Guys suck 
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Riversmommy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 711
Location: Springfield,Illinois
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Posted: 07-03-04 12:12pm
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Mmm girl! I aint pregnant anymore let
chanda and I get our hands on that boy we
will whip him in shape by the time we are
done he will be the biggest sweetheart and
romantic u could ever want!
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 07-03-04 14:35pm
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Haha thanx girls, I feel a lil better.
Still havent talked to him and I know he
went out last night drinking and
partying... So I stayed at my parents
again... Dont even know if i'll ever get
to go back to my own apartment 
Lol! But u girls really made me feel
better thanx a
bunch!!!!!
Shauna
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004
Posts: 765
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Posted: 07-03-04 20:48pm
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Boys are stupid throw boulders at them
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