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Q: "experience"

asked by: nikki_caro on September 23rd, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Just to let you guys know suzy and keelan or whatever your name is. How can you have more information on pregnancy than anything? Ive been there for two pregnancies. And I have thought I was pregnant a few years ago. I know what its like to be late and feel like your pregnant. Do you know how it feels to be pregnant? Yeah I can be a cop. My husband and I agreed not to. And for all of you making a post on me...Well thats great. I dont care. Just because im waiting to have a baby and I didnt have one at 15 doesnt mean im stupid. So ill be sure to tell my friend (who is going to be a nurse in feb.) that her books and learnings were wrong too. And herbert golden m.D. My nieces doctor (who I also went to when I was a baby) hes wrong too. And Dr. Tumer. Boy you both out smart everybody. But look. Since you guys like to be so mean and talk all that sh*t about me. Heres a story I heard at church (where I attend to be a better and nice person) I feel sorry for your kids if they come out like you....

While your sitting there saying all those harsh words, picture yourself back in the day, where .Jesus was laying on the cross, and imagine its you sitting there with that hammer slamming those nails into his arms and feet. Because he died for your sins. And imagine him looking at you with all that hurt and love in his eyes and hes saying I love you this much I will die for your sins...

So next time you want to be so mean...Thats you with the hammer ok? I refuse to continue this nonsense and childishness in here. Im better than that.

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Replies(11)

littleuga7

replied on September 23rd, 2003

New User

Nikki-caro

Well said.

To be honest I think making a post about someone just to trash them is pretty heartless and unwated in a place like this. Hormones are raging here as this is apregnancy forum. If someone has a problem with advice being given either ignore it or pm that person. We are all here for comfort, support, advice and most of all just to share with each other what we are experiencing. When you bring bashing into the situation it makes me personally scared to offer advice as I don't know what kind of post to expect from others.

Continue to offer advice/support etc etc if someone doesnt like it they can choose not to read it. As for people taking this advice to heart if there is truly somethin going on that concerns them they will seek professional help from a licensed physician.

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MrsVeeDub

replied on September 23rd, 2003

New User

I don't think this whole thing started to just "bash" a fellow user. I know that nikki's advice serves a great purpose to alot of the women on this forum. I believe some women were a little put off by her advice, not because she was right or wrong, but because she's never actually experienced it. And like you said.... Hormones are raging in here and to hear someone tell you it's like "this" when you're feeling like "that" can piss a pregnant women off.

Personally, I do not have a problem with nikki, nor did I ever. She's just trying to be helpful to some women in need of a friendly ear. Like I mentioned above... I was upset because she's relating symptoms when she indeed has never experienced them. Not to be mean! But I know from experience... That textbook symptoms and pregnancies are a hell of alot different than real ones. We come here for advice from fellow mom's and mom's to be. We all have friends and family members as well who have been pregnant and have all read books, magazine, email's etc

i feel nikki, that if you want to post advice. Go for it! There are some women who don't educate themselves by reading and asking questions. But please don't try to relate to them...

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nikki_caro

replied on September 23rd, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I have never once said..."well this happened to me" I say I read this...Or this happened to my sister on a pregnancy...If its about being late on a period then I have had many experiences on that so I can say what I know. I always mention what I read or watched on tv. Everyone knows I dont have any kids. And many girls love my replies. But you dont see me bashing anybody because they were wrong and for you to all mention that is not nice. But its ok. I dont mind I wll keep on doing what I do.

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MrsVeeDub

replied on September 23rd, 2003

New User

And I agree with you nikki, alot of women love your posts. I was just trying to clear the air for some people who may have a problem with you. My only problem (which doesn't even bother me, I just read over) is relating to symptoms. You'll find out when you create your little miracle that it really is alot different then you could imagine. I wasn't bashing you but rather on your side. Just trying to make a point to help you out as well other on the offensive.

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nikki_caro

replied on September 23rd, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

Ok well thats fine. But for a guy to tell me about a womens cycle and ovulation was pretty weird and annoying how he kept bashing me and I never even heard of him before.

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MrsVeeDub

replied on September 23rd, 2003

New User

Just like you said... People are scared, concerned, worried and especially super hormonal. Just tread lightly with these people!

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Suzy

replied on September 23rd, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

a Fresh Start

I would really love to start fresh everyone, nikki recieved an appology from me today about the "uncalled for comments" I have made about some of her posts, like I said in one other post, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and to share their experiences, we are all different. Let's face it if we didn't all have our say and all said exactly the same thing it wouldn't be a forum, it would be 1 persons opinion. I won't be commenting on anyone else's opinions, experiences or views, it's not my place to tell them they are wrong, I am only going to share my own. Lets just put all our comments into one and help the people coming here for help.

Regards,

.::suzy::.

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Darling

replied on September 23rd, 2003

Active User, very eHealthy

Sounds like a great idea suzy, if I ever offended you in any way please accept my apology.
Much love
tanya Smile

Smile

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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~

replied on September 23rd, 2003

New User

You know what ppl.......These people on here have problems and they are unsure of themselves and need a second oppinion..Its like my momma always told me....If you dont have ne thing nice to say dont say ne thing at all! So when some one is asking for your advice if you think what they are askin is stupid or dont agree with some one else you dont have to be rude you can have a strong oppinoin thats ok but I mean you dont have to be snotty and say well thats wrong other people get different info and so alls im saying is please be respectful!!!

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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~

replied on September 30th, 2003

New User

What about that cindy1 she said some pretty hurtfull things! I dont think thst was very respectable```

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nikki_caro

replied on September 30th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I know it wasnt. But thats the same person as keelan_ss

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