Well, my brother did live with us also up until about 6 months ago. Tiffaney was mur dered 4 years ago. Josh met another woman about a year ago and they began seeing one another. Now, they are engaged. Josh lives with her and her son nearby. But kaitlyn...... She's ours. She's settled here and we're her primary caregivers. Always were. Josh was 20 when tiffaney was mur dered and he was in no condition to be a daddy, it's just how josh was. Well, we began raising kaitlyn. Josh lived in the house....And he was and is daddy, but my mom and I are the primary caregivers and kaitlyn wouldn't want to leave my little brother and sister anyway. This is what she considers home. So she goes see her daddy and spend the night and stuff, but she lives with us. Josh is one of those "daddy give me money" "daddy take me here or there" but josh isn't the "daddy I want to stay with you forever". She's happier here! Lol. Plus, see she considers my mom, her mom. Like if you ask kaitlyn, she'll tell you. "i am lucky, I have 2 mommies, 1 in heaven and 1 on earth.....
Love,
chanda