ok alma is 18 and her daughter is hope (soon to be 2 in oct). So anyways youd think shed learn but nooo. She was dating this guy abel. Hes the biggest tramp ever. He sleeps with everyone. And ive known him a long time and he tells me what he wants from girls. Even when he met me he wanted to get laid, but I never let that happen. So alma became friends with him, then I guess one thing led to another and she was coming back with hickies and spending the night at his house, while my mom watched the baby. Alma knew what kinda dirty guy he was!
Then he got beat up and decides to move to sacramento (4-5 hours away) and she even drove out there to stay 1 night at a motel with him. I was fuming and yelling at my mom because she lets my sister have her freedom yet when I was 18 I was on lockdown. I couldnt see jose alone! And she lets her get a motel, while me and my mom watch hope the whole time!!
So then comes his turn to visit his family (they live 10 houses down from my mom) and do you think he calls her?? No! She called him like 8 times and not once did he stop by to see her. Or call her. So she got mad. Then he did that 3 more times and his step brother even told us he had another girlfriend already! And he was with her at the moment! So youd think my sister would learn she got kicked aside! But then 2 weeks later he starts calling her again and she falls for it. She says its cuz "she has no friends" so shes planning on driving out to see him again next week!!! Im so mad because none of us like him yet my mom is letting her go! At first my mom said no but then my mom was like "ok give me $100 and ill babysit" so my sister is giving her the 100!! Dummy, just to see him!!!
Errrr I wish I could knock my sister upside the head and tell her to stay home with her kid where she belongs. This is what happens when she has kids! Thank god shes on the shot! I said if she wants to go anywhere she should pack her daughter up and go, not leave her here. Now I have to watch her too! Errr. Im mad now.
Thats just sad! Ur sister needs to open her eyes! She doesnt need a guy to treat her like sh*t.. Especially when she has a child to think about.... Some girls will tolerate anything.. Hopefully she will change her mind soon because thats just asking for somethin bad to happen!
Omg nikki I totally understand where you're coming from. My sister is 18 on saturday and im 19 but she gets away with everything & I can barely move! My sister was going out with this lad who would ignore her for days & get moddy with her for no reason. I told her to dump him because it wasnt fair that he ignored her for a week at a time without any contact. Eventually they split but I still feel like he treated her like an idiot so I am mad and the next time I see him id say something but I know she'd kill me if I did!
Anyway,i understand that your mad at alma-she's mad mad mad to chase this guy! I think she's likes him because she thinks he's exciting & mysterious and maybe she likes chasing him because she thinks its fun but she's getting walked all over! She needs to cop on and realise that he's no good. I think its awful that she's passing hope onto you and your mom because hope's her responsibility. If she doesnt be careful she'll end up pregnant again! In a few months you will have a baby & she cant do this to you because you'll be too busy & your mom will be helping you! Give her all the advice you can but it sounds to me like she's going to chase this guy & I think she needs to do that to learn her lesson
Yeah thats what jose said, she needs to open her eyes and learn. We all told her that and shes like "your just jealous because im single!" and im like oh no im not, im fine where I am. But shes dumb. My says why cant she play hard to get!!! Not go after him! At least go after another guy! Not this one!
And I have to be nice and watch hope, because she will be my nanny soon lol
Wow. I truly hope she opens her eyes to this sorry guy! He's obviously using her for his own pleasures. Girl, I dunno what to say. Try and talk some since into her....... Though I know that's hard to do!