Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Errr My Sister Makes Me Mad! Kinda Long Sorry Posted: 07-01-04 17:21pm
Sorry this is so long but im mad lol
ok alma is 18 and her daughter is hope
(soon to be 2 in oct). So anyways youd
think shed learn but nooo. She was dating
this guy abel. Hes the biggest tramp
ever. He sleeps with everyone. And ive
known him a long time and he tells me what
he wants from girls. Even when he met me
he wanted to get laid, but I never let
that happen. So alma became friends with
him, then I guess one thing led to another
and she was coming back with hickies and
spending the night at his house, while my
mom watched the baby. Alma knew what
kinda dirty guy he was!
Then he got beat up and decides to move to
sacramento (4-5 hours away) and she even
drove out there to stay 1 night at a motel
with him. I was fuming and yelling at my
mom because she lets my sister have her
freedom yet when I was 18 I was on
lockdown. I couldnt see jose alone! And
she lets her get a motel, while me and my
mom watch hope the whole time!!
So then comes his turn to visit his family
(they live 10 houses down from my mom) and
do you think he calls her?? No! She
called him like 8 times and not once did
he stop by to see her. Or call her. So
she got mad. Then he did that 3 more
times and his step brother even told us he
had another girlfriend already! And he
was with her at the moment! So youd think
my sister would learn she got kicked
aside! But then 2 weeks later he starts
calling her again and she falls for it.
She says its cuz "she has no friends" so
shes planning on driving out to see him
again next week!!! Im so mad because none
of us like him yet my mom is letting her
go! At first my mom said no but then my
mom was like "ok give me $100 and ill
babysit" so my sister is giving her the
100!! Dummy, just to see him!!!
Errrr I wish I could knock my sister
upside the head and tell her to stay home
with her kid where she belongs. This is
what happens when she has kids! Thank god
shes on the shot! I said if she wants to
go anywhere she should pack her daughter
up and go, not leave her here. Now I have
to watch her too! Errr. Im mad now.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-01-04 17:41pm
Thats just sad! Ur sister needs to open
her eyes! She doesnt need a guy to treat
her like sh*t.. Especially when she has a
child to think about.... Some girls will
tolerate anything.. Hopefully she will
change her mind soon because thats just
asking for somethin bad to happen!
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 07-01-04 17:42pm
Omg nikki I totally understand where
you're coming from. My sister is 18 on
saturday and im 19 but she gets away with
everything & I can barely move! My
sister was going out with this lad who
would ignore her for days & get moddy
with her for no reason. I told her to
dump him because it wasnt fair that he
ignored her for a week at a time without
any contact. Eventually they split but I
still feel like he treated her like an
fool so I am mad and the next time I see
him id say something but I know she'd kill
me if I did!
Anyway,i understand that your mad at
alma-she's mad mad mad to chase this guy!
I think she's likes him because she thinks
he's exciting & mysterious and maybe
she likes chasing him because she thinks
its fun but she's getting walked all over!
She needs to cop on and realise that he's
no good. I think its awful that she's
passing hope onto you and your mom because
hope's her responsibility. If she doesnt
be careful she'll end up pregnant again!
In a few months you will have a baby &
she cant do this to you because you'll be
too busy & your mom will be helping
you! Give her all the advice you can but
it sounds to me like she's going to chase
this guy & I think she needs to do
that to learn her lesson
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 07-01-04 17:49pm
Yeah thats what jose said, she needs to
open her eyes and learn. We all told her
that and shes like "your just jealous
because im single!" and im like oh no im
not, im fine where I am. But shes dumb.
My says why cant she play hard to get!!!
Not go after him! At least go after
another guy! Not this one!
And I have to be nice and watch hope,
because she will be my nanny soon lol
Wow. I truly hope she opens her eyes to
this sorry guy! He's obviously using her
for his own pleasures. Girl, I dunno what
to say. Try and talk some since into
her....... Though I know that's hard to
do!
Love,
chanda
