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Ok seriously im kinda pisssed off right now. My stupid co-worker (shes a girl) shes 23.. Anyhow, shes a ‘bigger’ girl.. Not to be mean, but she’s overweight. Doesn’t bother me at all and I think its fine. But she is really getting to me. A few months back she would always comment on how I eat all the time and bla bla bla…even if I wasn’t eating a lot etc..And not to sound conceided.. But I know im not a big person, and she knows a little about my past/present with my eating disorder (not in detail at all tho) anyhow, today she was like “kari, look..See that guy” and she pointed to this guy that sits near us. He is such a nice person. He is overweight..And shes like ‘his bellys like yours!’ …first of all im thinking… how immature and rude.. That guy is super nice… and 2nd of all I got pisssed because she was comparing my belly to his.. (not to be mean at all) but I mean im really self conscious..And it bothered me a lot.. I know of course my belly is gonna be big, im 37 weeks preggo lol.. But still..I know it doesn’t look like just an overweight belly at all but it still buggs me! Im just trying to remind myself im fine, ive gained 22 lbs and im almost done and haven’t gained in 9 weeks so I know im not like overgaining.. But my head gets the best of me sometimes. She also freaks me out sometimes because I always catch her staring at me! What should I do about this girl? Thanks!
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replied July 1st, 2004
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Shes just really jealous of you most likely thats all. Ignore her. Shes immature. And maybe she thinks your cute lmao. When she says rude comments like that just say, "thats so mean" "your one to talk" or "your so rude!" thats what I would do. Shes in no spot to mbe making fun of you. So just keep away from her. But snap back next time she says something, otherwise she will continue to do it, you are really tiny so dont get down at all ok!
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replied July 1st, 2004
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Haha next time just hand her a mirror!!
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replied July 1st, 2004
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I agree with erin on this one Laughing
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replied July 1st, 2004
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Don't feel bad hun....When camerin teases me all the time my friends mom says its just a sign of affection.....Lol....A little weird in this case but you never know......But I think she is jealous cuz u r absoloutly beautiful.....Now I have to give this smelly kid a bath....It was 96 degrees here today and he sweats like a little piggy.....Lol.
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replied July 1st, 2004
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Hit her with your car Smile


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replied July 1st, 2004
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Haha thanks girls i'll take some of ur advice. Lol the car things goin a little too far Laughing anyhow... I feel like shes hitting on me sometimes tho.. Shes always telling me how 'cute' and 'pretty' I am and she'll even say to someone else out loud, 'isnt kari so cute?' what am i, a puppy or something?!?!? Its just too weird she freaks me out..Maybe shes into chics...

By the way if no ones noticed, ive been posting alot.. Its soooooooo slow at work im so bored im going to die! Im working the late shift and its so dead............ Confused
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replied July 1st, 2004
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Maybe she's into pregnant chicks Wink
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